Is it necessary to be virgin till marriage

am a virgin as a guy and i need a virgin bride for my life. it's sure.

it is based on your country and the love with your future partner.i was waitin for my future partner e came ..now im runnin a nice life with him.so this works in my case. i am happy now.these thins are based your mind and heart.

It must be a cultural thing. Here in the States, many lose their virginity Way before they marry. And many Never marry!So here is does not matter. In fact many coupes live together before they marry.

Hey guys do u also stay virgin? or are you all hypocrites? Is only the female excected to remain virgin or do you guys remain virgin too. Because if it were me and i remained virgin i would also expect my husband to be virgin too.

it is, at least i am a conservative girl. Keeping it safe and sound just for the one i love till married is one thing that i want to

Ha, I hope not! I was raised that way, but I've grown up and realized that if you have a husband that really truly loves you, whatever happened in your past will not matter to him. It's the here and now to worry about.

Virgin or not is not important for me. I think it's necessary because we are human being that always commit a mistake. If the girl that I married is a virgin good but if not good also. Because we do not enter into married because that. We enter into marriage because we love that person not because she is a virgin. It's not good for a men to leave his wife when he find out she is not a virgin. It's a kind of illiteracy... It is true that if men married a virgin wife is a kind of proud. But men should think that women is not stone that no feelings. Since she didn't kept her virginity due to her weakness...let her being a good wife not being a virgin wife.

Yes it does matter.

Being a virgin is not a necessary requirement to become married. It is a matter of choice.There are still some people that wish to have their virginity until they are wed.

beliefs vary due to different traditions, religion and culture of countries. for example in our country, virginity mattered during my parents time thats why it pisses me off when my mom emphasizes that guys will not take you seriously if they found out ur not a virgin anymore. but i think things have changed recently and younger generation has become more liberated in their thinking. for me i think its unfair and narrow minded if your husband or bf will leave bcuz they cant accept your past. if a guy loves you, then hes going to accept your past no matter what.

Would be nice to to give your virginity to your husband after marriage. But you think he can wait that long? Or you think your relationship would last just by kissing and hugging? I don't think so. So I don't think its really necessary in this generation.

In one word, NO. I don't think that there are many virgins around nowadays, if you want to wait till your married that is your choice, for me i never did but we are all different.

For a liberated world we have today, it is not necessary anymore, but being a virgin till marriage is such a great thing you can gift to the one you had chosen to be with you forever.

Virgin whats that i didnt no they made those anymore lololololoolololo

Though virginity is no longer a social issue, I think it would be desirable for couples to have their first taste of lovemaking after marriage. And then enough commitment from both will keep them happy and from straying. This has been the case with me. The moment one knows a different and maybe a more appealing partner exists, there is always a chance of going astray. This is not good for a marriage. You may call me a prude, but, this is what I think.

staying a virgin before marriage is one's personal choice but in some people it is a matter of tradition. Respecting one's tradition I guess is what matters. Whether it's a choice or tradition, one must respect it!

I think that in nowdays it isn't necessary to be virgin.Each person have chance to be happy in your live,so he/she constantly look for happiness.If don't succeed from first time,she'll search happiness in other place.Everybody need happiness, so we must be understand that virginity is good thing but not necessary.The main is the real feeling between partners.

I agree to your friend that being a virgin is important(but not the most important, but I don't believe that a man would leave his wife just because he discovered she was no longer a virgin.It's too different from the time of our grandparents, today, most people who are in a relationship usually sleep together and we all know that not all of them end up together.

Can I just say women should be wanted not for being a virgin but for being themselves.I'm sure alot of men out there who married a virgin weren't virgins themselves,they went out and enjoyed themselves so why can't women. Okay don't have multiple partners as this may lead to cervical cancer anyway,but a little experience can't hurt.I am not a promisuous person myself but I believe in supporting my own sexes freedom of choice.I realise religion and cultural differences come into it alot but personally I wouldn't want to be with someone who is only with me because I let him have my virginity and he wasn't with me for being myself.I am like I say not a promiscuous person especially being 41 and still a virgin myself.

Yes as a boy it is important to me but not necessary if the situation is already happened that girl I love is not virgin. Now a days that treasure of a girls is almost gone, un-important and consider it un-necessary. However, if a girls realize that the virginity of her is important and part of her character and her whole being, she will excert extra effort to protect and intact till the time marriage is done.