i'm really thinking about him a lot

United States
October 16, 2010 11:21am CST
man, i am really thinking about this guy i met a lot. i don't want him for a relationship, i just think about him. i think about sleeping with him but then i think about how much fun it would be if we were texting each other. we could very well do that but he isn't good at responding. usually mid day or at night he sends me a message and says good night and stuff but that's it. he says he's really busy at a gaming tournament. it doesn't really matter if he thinks about me or not, i just think about him all the time, it gets kind of annoying.. i'm not even attracted to him. maybe i'm just desperate, who knows. LOL
5 responses
• Canada
16 Oct 10
I bet if you told him this he would answer your message! Most guys would like to have some fun with no relationship, if you just offer! Remember to use protection and have fun!
• United States
16 Oct 10
well i have already told him. i asked him, 'do you want to sleep with me?' and he said 'duh' and that was where it went.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
he said "duh"?!?!...I'm starting to wonder..
• United States
16 Oct 10
hahah yeah that's what he said, duh.. as if i was already supposed to know that?
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
I have read responses prior to mine in this discussion and I think that you are bored. I may not know you at all, but I have to say that I, too feel something similar sometimes. I am in a happy relationship though, but there are just times that when I'm all alone and really really bored I feel the need to have to text any or some particular female aside from my girlfriend, without the desire of course of anything intimate, just perhaps clearing the cobwebs of the moment.
• United States
16 Oct 10
haha i think you may be right. i write write write thats all i do and sometimes i'm just really bored... then again i know for the convention i'll be alone bored by myself LOL so maybe thats why i want to hang out with him?
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
who is this guy? i think that you gotta desire for him! lol
• United States
16 Oct 10
lol he isn't my ideal :( thats the funny part. i think maybe because he is the first nice guy i've met since my ex boyfriend that was really abusive? whatever it is, i don't want anything with him, i just want to have fun and stay single, i think it's much better that way for me right now.
@johney264 (544)
• China
24 Oct 10
May be you can attract him or you never try your best to fascinate your loving boy , but don't need to feel dispoint you should still encourage or inspire yourself to be strong may be at last can't together but there must have another better man waiting for you if you have do as possible as you can but he still don't want to have that kind of deep relationship. as a woman on the other side should keep your sanctity don't need to do much crazy things I hope someday you can moving your loved one living a good life
@Pyroo8 (121)
• United States
17 Oct 10
allll i can say is WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW