can Girl be happy after marriage ?

@Karunvig (714)
India
October 16, 2010 11:45am CST
Can a girl who had physical relation with the bf and then due to some reason thy didnt get married and she got married to sum1 else... Do u think when a relation breaks without any reason... can she adjust herself with her hubby... ??
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9 responses
17 Oct 10
hii karunvig its a tough question. most of the girls will be happy after their marriage. but it depends on her husband and her mother in law if they are good she may feel comfortable and may lead a happy life. and this question if she had a physical relation wiith her bf then it is very tough for her to adjust there and she must forget about him in order to be happy............
@Karunvig (714)
• India
19 Oct 10
but she finds her happiness only in arms of her bf rathr thn husband still after marriage..
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Hi, I think she will.If she already let go of her ex and she finally decided to be with the new guy she must commit herself to him.It will b every hard for a girl to easily forget him especially if the guy was a good man but what else she can do if it is not working anymore.She must then face the new relationship now and take care of it.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
19 Oct 10
hope so because till date bf is more than her hubby in all terms...
• United States
16 Oct 10
Very few relationships break up for no reason. It would also make sense for the man she does end up marrying to be someone worth marrying. The idea that a non-virgin woman is somehow "ruined" and has to accept any man who would deign to be with her is absurd. Furthermore, the concept that a woman is expected to adjust her life to fit herself to the whims of a man is just disgusting. A couple should only get married if their lives compliment each other. No one should be expected to "adjust" to the other.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
19 Oct 10
the girl lost virginity when she was in luv with her college thn later she come to knw tht HE (that guy) is married... still she continued her relation with him and now with her husband she make phsical relation once a month and with hr bf once a week.. hw will u react to this ?
@segungb (169)
• Nigeria
16 Oct 10
It is all in the mind. If she makes up her mind to give herself to her husband, she will be fine.
• Canada
17 Oct 10
Agreed with this. If she felt comfortable enough to start dating, let alone get married, a woman can easily give herself to her new husband.
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
Maybe it will work out fine for some pairs, but will not work in some pairs also. In the situation that you've given, it can be a rebound in some relationship. Rebound, wherein the girl looked for another for her to forget the things that had happened in the past with her ex-bf. In some relationship, this will work out just fine if they really love each other.
@kevingee (283)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
Naaaaa. everything would be fine. Its all in the mind. She can just move on in it. :)
• United States
16 Oct 10
That all depends on who she is married to and how much freedom she has. I think that for my boyfriend and I, we would probably be happy if we got married, maybe, because we both like our freedom and we don't want that to ever change. We just aren't sure about children and our living situation. He wants to move to Oregon and I am not so sure if I want to.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Of course. She got married already, that means she had moved on from her past. Past is past. You need to move on before getting into another relationship especially marriage relationship. It is a stupid move to marry when you are still holding on with the past.
• Jamaica
16 Oct 10
Why would one break a relationship without a reason? I think whatever reason one has for breaking a relationship shouldn't matter, the fact remains that it's over. That person should now concentrate on the new spouse or he or she may very well find himself in another broken relationship.