things that you wanted but you can't do because of your family?
By eamr_25
@eamr_25 (26)
Philippines
October 16, 2010 9:48pm CST
We all love our family. That sometimes we have to make a decision that we have to sacrifice our own happiness just for them. We always think first what is best for them though it was against us. There are some cases that they left their loved one because his family cannot accept them due to so many reasons where is the bottom line is they (family) afraid/jealous that there is someone that can get maybe your full attention that could make you forget them... I wans't in this situation, my family are so understanding yet I have my own sentiment to my family that makes me feel so fulfilling yet i felt so alone. There's a lot of story that maybe you've been experiencing or been experienced before that you wanted to share here...Let it voiced out here, it could help to lessen the burden in you heart.
2 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
i am married for 8 years now and we have a four year old son. but my mother is half bodied paralyze for almost 4 years. so now even i want to do a lot for my wife and my child it is always under budget because of my mothers condition. that is okay for me but sometimes the frustration of giving my son what he wants is heart breaking for me. welcome to the wonderful world of mylot hope to see you more here.
@eamr_25 (26)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
that was sad to hear from you...
but, if i were your wife, i would understand you for as long as you don't suffer/forget your responsibility as husband/father to your own family... anyway, it's your mother who is involved and she's paralyzed. maybe that could be the least thing that you could do for her and your wife to your mother. She have to think this, if it is not to your mother, she has no husband such a sweet and responsible husband as you,now...Cheer up! Talk to your wife and son, they will understand for sure!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
oh dont get me wrong i have the most supportive wife, and she is all out on supporting with what my mother is going through. even my mother does not like her, for they want me to marry someone else.... i pick the woman who is perfectly fit for me. my wife helped me in anyway she can. she is a stay at home mother so she can be hand on with our son but she still do some work so it will be an additional earnings for us. it only breaks my heart that there are so many things that i can give my son but i know that they both understand it. since your "topic was things that you wanted but you can't do because of your family"that is my response. 
@jackjill123 (405)
• India
17 Oct 10
I act like 2 different persons within me. When I am with my family I will be cool, calm guy with lot of patience and a obedient son.I don't want to hurt my parent when I am with them. Once I am out of my home, I will be a totally different person with my friends. Fun freak, over enthusiastic, bit bullish...
@eamr_25 (26)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
because, maybe...you are afraid to show your fun freak attitude to your family because they might get disappointed of you. But don't be...they are your family, no matter how you act, whoever you are...they will accept you as you are because whatever you will do, they are affected because your life is connected with them. Whatever happen to you, they are involve whether they like it or not. When you do something bad, they felt bad...when you've done something good, they will be proud of you! Just be yourself...
