How to break up from a relationship?

October 16, 2010 11:08pm CST
Can anyone tell me what the easiest way is to break-off from a relationship? The fact being... i'm a stupid martyr. =p I know i'm being fooled.. i know i'm being lied at.. i feel that i'm being taken for granted.. but even though i keep on saying to myself "enough is enough," i can't fight the courage or maybe the proper way to say "Goodbye" without hurting the people i care about.
4 responses
• Indonesia
17 Oct 10
Simple, friend, it's simple. come to her and tell her the evil characteristics and habit of you. I give you an example: "Darling, you know, I love to vomit... Don't know why. And darling, before being my wife later, I wanna ask your opinion. What about if after vomiting I swallow that *thing* again?" Is it OK for you, babe???" I guarantee, she will always be OK to leave you whenever you need.
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
Ive been there my friend. Ive also been martyr for four years. And made to the point that I can't take it anymore, so I decided to leave him. There's always a way, if there's a will, my dear. And there's no need for you to feel bad or to find a proper way to say goodbye... just do it! You can make it girl. I did it before, why cant you.?
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
breaking up, like loving, is a decision. If you decided on it, then say it and never look back. if you are not happy in the relationship you are in now, and you know and you are sure that something is wrong, then leave it. If you are carrying too many loads in your hands, and you feel too burdened because of it, you put it down right? Because we all have our limits. if you think you reached it, then don't make it too harder for yourself. Getting over it will take a while and a painful process, but if it will be your own good, then it is better to say goodbye now than digging your emotion and bury it deeper with time...be brave...be strong...
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
Well, that's kinda hard. You know saying goodbye to the one you love is not that easy, you can't avoid not to hurt that person. But i think it would be good to say what's really in your heart. Don't say too many words. Tell that person directly to what your point is.