Best way to deal with loss of loved ones
By mokbul
@mokbul (616)
Singapore
October 17, 2010 2:20am CST
Most of us have to go through losses of the loved ones in some stages of life. It could be parents, siblings, spouse or chidren.
Some becomes grief sticken for months, depressed and withdrawn from life. Some takes it easily and accepts the universal manadate that everyone has to die and the truth is that advances in technology and scinece can not completely stop the death.
People will describe the reason or pupose behind the death differently depending on their belief, religion, culture and feelings. But the reality is that the person, who was with you the day before is no more there and will never be there.
For me, I can not take the deputrure of loved one easily, it keeps on hunting me that what should I have done or what I should have not done, although I know it is fruitless now.
You may or may not have experieneced loss of most loved one yet. But how do you handly or how are you going to handle?
I apologize if some one has already staretd this or similar discussion recently.
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3 responses
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
17 Oct 10
Hi mokbul, I have lost my father when I was in 8th standard, I was not at all ready to understand it. I used to pray that he should come back. I used to see dreams that he has come back. I still see him in dream. I still want his care and love I my life. One day I asked my friend to see a tarot for me, I received a message that “ if you have lost your love once , he or she loves you and is happy their and don’t worry about me” that day I cried whole day and understood that I need to move on but still I see him in my dream.
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@wazzupabby (8)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
well in my opinion there is no best way to deal with a loss of someone you love, it is a gradual process, it takes time. You dont get over a loss that easily because the person was part of you. However, you just have to let yourself feel the pain, then comes acceptance. Time will heal all wounds and time will let you get over it.
@gunjanpri (603)
• India
17 Oct 10
I lot my mother and I am still unable to come out of that grief. It is difficult, really difficult.