i felt so alone...
By brean_rhea
@brean_rhea (176)
Philippines
October 17, 2010 5:43am CST
I am in this place i barely known for quite seven months already. I do not have those true friends because i could'nt trust anybody specially that i am stranger in this place, but i have to stay here because my job requires me to be here.
There are this times that i really felt so alone and being left out by my loved ones. I could not go home anytime because my hometown is very far.
What should i do to get over with this feeling and just live here normally?
advices please...
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16 responses
@neelia_lyn (2003)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
It's good MyLot is here where you can find friends to share your feelings with, so that you won't feel much homesick and lonely. You have to talk to your co-employers and befriend the one you think you can trust. It's tough living someplace and not having a friend or a relative to talk to and to hangout with. I'm sure you can find real friends there.
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@brean_rhea (176)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
Yes you are right Mylot is a very big help for me because i can share feelings here. Actually i do talk with someone, but i just cant find a person that i can confide with in terms of my heartaches or problems. What i mean is i am looking for someone that i can fully trust into.
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@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
17 Oct 10
If I was in your shoes, this is what I would do. I would visit different churches. I would just attend and smile at people. I'm sure that I would eventually find one where people are friendly and before long I would have some good friends.
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@elmiko (6630)
• United States
18 Oct 10
just take it slow when trying to be social with people and just get a feel of who you like be around. after this period of time you should be able to have some people that may not necessarily be friends but at least some acquaintances. just try to get to know people and be more outgoing because its definitely not healthy not having enough people to socialize with.
@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
I have two options for you one, you stay that way and two, you start talk to people like your neighbors or your colleague. I understand that doubts or not trusting to anyone is a precaution for our own safety but I guess there's nothing wrong if you started to being friendly. You can initiate a conversation to anyone at least then slowly you will eventually find someone you become a friend.
@brean_rhea (176)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
i rather choose the first one, because in the second i have these neighbors that i cant really understand, and they just love gossiping whenever i will pass by in front of them.
@mksgamon09 (21)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
You should start knowing your neighbors or making new friends. Making friends is one of the best ways that will cure your loneliness. In my case, my friends and my family are the only ones who make me feel special. Make new friends and keep the old. hehe
@kendrathil (308)
• India
18 Oct 10
It is quite normal to have such feelings when one is away from his or her own place. You can talk to your friends online and also contact your friends quite often. You can also take a stroll in the evenings so that your mind will be so fresh.
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
17 Oct 10
every body needs friends and company.find achurch or some place that may have people you can trust.you really need to get out and meet people.i know you can not trust every one but no one needs to be alone find some good peopl and it will start to feel more like hometo you.do not trust every one but for sure do not stay alone for to much longer.
@gunjanpri (603)
• India
17 Oct 10
If you want to come out of this loneliness and boredom, you need to take an initiative. Come out, go for shopping. That is the best way to interact with people and know the local taste. Be adventurous but visit places which are relatively crowded and not lonesome.
@princesscarren (85)
• Indonesia
18 Oct 10
dear my friend, your felt is so alone why, ? it's become a big questions in my self, but it just your feeling, many people like you in this world, i am to sometimes felt like you but it's no matters, cause we live in this world , actually need the other you must talk your problem to your friends, cause it make will happy
@xtmlove (402)
• China
18 Oct 10
Hi, brean
I think you need to change this situation as soon as possible. I have some advices to you. Firstly, you need to communicate with the others, such as your colleagues or neighbors. You can obtain trust both of each other. Secondly, you could have a try to some activities in your company or in the locality. You can make more friends in these occasions.
@von_xy (35)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Well you have to take a look around you, you need to explore and see what is in store for you, you might be seeing the tings that will make you happy and feel good. Enjoy somethings that you never been experienced before. Being alone is not such a bad thing, it helps almost every aspect of your life..So go and explore...and be friendly always... :-)
@von_xy (35)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
first you have to take a look around you...try to see what is in store for you on that place, who knows if you will explore you will have the best time of your life.. Being alone is not such a bad thing, it will develop almost everything in you..Explore and live life to the fullest... :-)
@danielashaira (86)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
you can start making new friends and start trusting people. Even though your in a far place you can trust anyone.
@widiharahap (7)
• Indonesia
18 Oct 10
we live alone, and we die alone why you so confuse to joy your life
@goldenteardrops (747)
• United States
17 Oct 10
lots of friends here and the internet provides just be careful where and what you say but alot of good people here and there .. I would be glad to be a friend ..penpal or just some one to talk to..so would alot of others. hang in there...
@ivanmarginal (675)
• Indonesia
17 Oct 10
Rhea, you might be alone, but you will never ever be lonely.
We born into this life alone, but we are never be lonely.
You have anybody you love in your heart. They are never faraway from you. Yes, They are in you.
