How would you feel.?
By gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
October 17, 2010 5:47am CST
How would you feel if your close friend to remove you from her/ his friend list in facebook ...
if that happens. what will you do.?
Happy myloting,
thanks
11 responses
@harry89 (2330)
• India
18 Oct 10
Well, it will not matter to me if is my online friend, but if he hs my real life friend and put my name outside his friends list on facebook then i think i will ask him first the reason for that and if his reason does not satisfy me then i think i will not talk to him FIRST again.
Harry , :-)
@smartrich22 (393)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 10
No worry.. you still have much friend who cares about you! just live him/her alone!
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
17 Oct 10
If that happened to me then i would not really mind,as i hardly go on facebook anymore.I may ask why they had removed me as their friend,but only if i noticed.If this has happened to you then if i were you i would ask your friend why they had removed you if you are still friends.
@loktibrad (107)
• Slovak Republic
17 Oct 10
I absolutely know what are you talking about. It realy can hurt in certain situations. Thw worst is when you have no other method to contact him or her other then between four eyes. But when you personally meet only ocasionaly, it can be realy stressfull. What I will do? My situation is somehow complicated and on one hand I know why she does that but on the other she have no reason for doing that. Communication is the key, if you have any other option to contact him/her do it asap =)
@couchpotato143 (110)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
A friend whom I consider very dear deleted me from her facebook. It so happens that she is the wife of my brother in law. The separated because of a third party. The third part got pregnant and guess what? The baby's birthday is the same as mine. I was so excited for the baby i visited her at the hospital. The fact that we had the same birthday triggered happiness in me. My brother in law took a picture and then tagged me in his facebook. My friend saw this and deleted me. She sent word through my sister though that she's gonna delete me because she can't move forward if she keeps seeing things concerning her ex-husband. Although I was hurt, I had to understand he fact that she was hurting. I hope she finds a better man who will love her for her.
@Ladyobsidian (198)
• Canada
17 Oct 10
If a close friend removed me from Facebook, I obviously did something to upset then, even if I don't realize it. So, I'd try and contact them by other means and talk to them about why they removed me.
@gerald_lian (2188)
• Australia
17 Oct 10
This would not be a big problem for me, because firstly, I do not have many close friends on my Facebook list and secondly, they might have removed me from his/her friend's list by accident. If a friend removes me from his/her friends list, I guess there is nothing much I can do about it. If I contact that friend and ask him/her about this issue, it might just portray the fact that I am desperate for them to add me back into their list. On the other hand, if they have removed me from their friend's list by error, I am sure they will request friendship again shortly and I will gladly oblige. Friendship is a two-way thing; no use forcing if the other person doesn't want to respond to your friendship.
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
17 Oct 10
Hi dear,
Of course, there may be reasons. But this reason is reasonable we can understand and just for nothing they remove the name from their list, you need to understand why and move accordingly. In your observation, if there is no specific reason, send a ‘thank you’ mail for it and if they hurt, you will get a reply.
Regards,
Thank-s
@Mackenzie_jad228 (556)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
This had happened to me, not just me but all of us her "barkada" (close friends). one of our friend hated all of us and deleted us all in her friend list in FB . It so sad that she really ended our friendship because of a shallow reason. But we all hope that we could bring back the past.
@elkanwa (626)
• Malaysia
17 Oct 10
hemm.. not big problem for me. Because there alot of people in fb that i really don't know them. if you ask what will i do theres nothing i will do to somebody that reject or remove me from their friend list. Life goes on and i will add another people to be my friend haa... would you? happy myloting too.
