If you could change one thing?
By gjax57
@gjax57 (897)
United States
October 17, 2010 6:31am CST
Hmmmmmmmm, I would want to say If I could change 1 thing it would be not to have gotten married so young. I wish I experienced life more before I made that leap into "forever" being with one person for the rest if my life...HOWEVER it turned out it didnt last forever, but I did get a beautiful daughter out of it!!!!!!! so seeeeeeee things happen for a reason lol..what would you change?
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16 responses
@takie23 (142)
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17 Oct 10
If I could change one thing it would be to have saved up more since I started working up until now, and acquired things bit by bit one by one until I am financially stable. In a sense, I want to give myself that opportunity of planning for myself to acquiring things just so I could sense that sense of accomplishment from early state.
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@marriedman111399 (1207)
• United States
17 Oct 10
Well if I could just change 1 thing it would have to be my attitude towards people and how I react to people. I always get mad at people when they say something I dont like or when they take over helping someone when I started to help them. I have to start getting so mad at people when they tell my kids what to do when they are not the parents and I am in the same room as my kids. My mother-in-law does that all the time and I hate it. I wish I could change that but I dont think I can. Hopefully she will change but I dont think that will happen.
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
17 Oct 10
hmmm I wonder if my daughter thinks the same way you do when I try and tell her kids what to do sometimes...I feel i'm the grandparent so why not? lol..oh well I guess i'm just going to be another person you dont like hehe..but thanks marriedman for posting :)
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
17 Oct 10
I to got married young [16] duh. I'm like u i got my son from that & i'm proud i did. I would not have married either guy that i did if i had known it was going to turn out the way it did. U don't have to be married to have kids.
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@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
17 Oct 10
What I want to change isn't anything drastic. I believe that I would have been part of our company's current show had I asked to audition for the lead part. I know I could pull that off and get great reviews for it (the company trained me well). Depressed, I wallowed until the last minute and asked to do make up for the actors instead. I got a good friend as part of my "team" and we're doing fabulous in the dressing room. We're both not having the most fun, but we're building our makeup portfolios and coping in the midst of bad vibes.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
17 Oct 10
I don't want to change anything much because i am happy with what life has given me and i think no one should be given the power to change anything they want to. Else they would use it for their own benefits only. So i believe that only people should work hard to achieve what they want to do.
That power is only God's and not anyone's else. If you saw Bruce almighty then you would understand what are the difficulties about it.
Cheers!
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@haxorfreek (523)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
If i could change one thing in my life. That would have been accepting the first job offer they have given me which i turned down. The one who accepted it is now in good glory. Good for him
@wlielnarD (6)
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18 Oct 10
nothing because i am contented with my life even though it is full of sorrow ......................and nothings gonna change because it is GOD given!!!!!!!
and i finally found peace in me!
@pankajgarg (797)
• India
18 Oct 10
if i could change one thing in past, than i would definitely prevent myself from accidents that i had met in my life which lead to many operations and hospital shifts and made me unfit to join as a technician in the indian air force even though i am good in avionics.
@lynlypiochy (706)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
If I were to change one thing, it would be the time that I broke up with my ex for all the wrong reasons I had to tell him. I had to lie to him so my parents would stop digging up dirt on him and trying to investigate what kind of a guy he really is. It was messed up. We should've just remained friends.
@Pinkie2011 (64)
• United States
17 Oct 10
If i could change one thing it would be my moms marriage to my ex stepfather.I do not have very fond memories of him.He was mean to us and he was in jail a lot. If i could change anything I would have had my mom stay single when she met him instead of her marrying him.
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@limpehsong (30)
• Singapore
18 Oct 10
one thing i want to change is the lack of control of my own life. my parents chooses everything for me, controls the activities that i do, if i can i really wanted to live my own life. but i guessed my parents are just concerned bout me and scared that i may do something stupid to make me regret my entire life.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
17 Oct 10
I would also change the fact that I got married so young. Actually I had my first child when I was only 17 (two weeks after my 17th birthday). I didn't marry his dad until about three years later. I always said I don't believe in marriage because my mom has been married and divorced three times and my dad has been married and divorced two times. Nearly everyone in my family has been divorced. I have been with my husband for more than 22 years but it has been the hardest thing I have had to work to keep together. In fact over the past year we have discussed divorce. So, yes I would have lived life and I would have gotten my college degree straight out of high school.
@coarcangelF (54)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
..i change my family..cause i don't like them all..and i want to change that..that's the reason why i have new life now..without parents hands.!!!!