Is it right?
By jramorinD
@jramorinD (85)
Philippines
October 17, 2010 10:19am CST
Last year my 4 years boyfriend, who happens to be my first love died. 2months after his death, I met a guy. Felt in with him love, and now his my boyfriend.
But sometimes I felt guilty that for the longer period of time we spent with my boyfriend who past away, that early I replaced him. Feels like a betrayal for him. What you think guys? Am I that bad? Should I wait for few more years after his death to find another lover?
2 responses
@kamontgomery (25)
• United States
17 Oct 10
I don't think is bad. Everyone grieves at a different pace. Also, you can't help it when you love someone, it just ended up finding you again and sooner rather than later. The only way this situation wouldn't be justified is if you were purposely looking for someone.
@Ladyobsidian (198)
• Canada
17 Oct 10
I don't think it's bad. There are no rules to grieving OR dating, and people begin to heal at different times. As long as you are happy, and not being to hard on yourself, it's alright.
