I don't understand him but I'm afraid of loosing him...

In which county are you and in which country he is?You can do one thing start a join fund.Let you and him contribute to funds simply for being together.Estimate a cost and see how much you guys need.Tell him to contribute monthly and you too do it. Then meet in real and see where it goes. I am agree with sentiment expressed by many my lotters here.Its risky and sometime just a waste of time.Many times people pretend to be something else online and they are something else in real. Well good luck!

1. I think you are desperate for a relationship. 2. Why are you dating an assh0le like who does not even want to take the first step, i.e., he should be the one visiting your place or wherever you live, not literally your house. 3. Why dont you go try and find some guy around where you live, it shouldn't be that hard.

An online relationship is not real life until you have met the person involved - until then it is exists only in your mind, however much you think you love each other...He may tell you he loves you, but words in cyberspace are easy to say, and very different from face to face emotions...I think it would be wise for you to think very carefully before spending a lot of money on meeting someone who you really don't know at all....Please be careful.

I feel you did good by sharing the truth , if he is sad it may because he was planning to meet you. You can also ask him to come. And if this small reason is going to make him go away then its not going to work in future. He can feel unhappy but he should understand. And if he understand then he will wait for you to come or will plan some other option. I am sure love him as you thought to work just to meet him, but what he is planning to do?

For me if he can wait you what happened then he loves you not too matter about it because if Jehovah God knows that your meant to be then it is meant.

alright i'd like to tell you about my stories that same like you,i ever get in relationship with online bf and long distance relationship,yeah that's first time that i get long distance relationship and i feel it's not work,what we do is only calling,chatting and etc,and then day by day i had a feeling about my bf then you know after 6 months we're fighting int that time i remember that im really disappointed and mad, you know he has affair behind me,i dont know this and my friend told me ,it's makes me down for a week then im not called him and send message or what and i think i got the terrible thing in my life "he left and disappear like that" (this part makes me too sad and now it's just like imposibble that i can loves someone again) and i have a opinion for you long distance relationship,you know it's hard to keep it on because if we never seeing our bf that we dont know that he is love you or not,because sometimes boy can lie to you and do something that you dont know,but if your bf loves you he will wait to seeing you,or he will go to your hometown and staying for a nights,if you meet someone that loves you he will do anything for you,altough it's hard ,dont be afraid of loosing him,you must search your true love sorry for posting to much,im just wanna share :)

Your boyfriend is not being very reasonable about this. If he was so desperate to meet you he would except this readily or offer to help you pay for coming too him. What he seems to be doing is trying to make you pay the bill for meeting him. This should not be and he should be the one coming to see you. You have gone to the trouble of trying to work this out and he is not buying it. Now if you only lived a few miles from each other and you put off meeting for 6 months they he might have a legitimate concern. But that is not the case and he is not being reasonable at all. He may not be quite as devoted to your relationship as you are. You may indeed be much better off dropping it.

it's sometimes make us , unhappy cause many people especially woman, or may be gentleman, can feel that, cause that can make case, in our heart. and about heart you can lie it, cause that feeling came from your bottom of your hearts, from that may him can make you feel other than you with others, so that never mind.

If he's really interested and if he has the capability to handle the costs, then he should be the one visiting you. If a person cannot wait for you, most likely he would get tired of waiting. If you picture yourself having a more serious relationship with this guy, then consider the pros and cons.