once a cheater always a cheater?

Your opinion about cheating is really other 's opinion too and that is always happen ordinarily to all cheaters. Many are cheater for curiosity and they are enjoying that way which they don't know they are getting hooked. Sometimes they don't mind if they cheat all they know is they are happy. They don't think others feelings. As what you are talking about forgiveness yes you better forgive and time will come they will realized their faults. And that is your turn. Forget and forgive.

The fault is at your friend, she cannot let go of all the things she did for the guy. There's your answer. I have all these friends who cannot let go of all the things they did and invested in a relationship. Number one is virginity then the rest is just time and effort.

i AGREE TOTALY IF HE HAS CHEATED THAT MANY TIMES ITS TIME FOR HIM TO GO.. I CAN SEE ONCE BUT NOT TWICE..I MEAN THAT IS DIS RESPECTFUL TO YOU FREIND AND MAKING HER LOOK LIKE A FOOL HE WOULD RESPECT HER MORE IF SHE STOOD UP FOR HERSELF AND TOLD HIM OK IM THUR AND MOVED ON TO SOMEONE WHO WONT CHEAT.. CHEAITNG IS BAD AND UNCALLED FOR IT IS ONLY FOR USERS OF OTHER PEOPLE AND THAT IS WHAT HE IS DOING TO YOUR FREIND HE IS USING HER .. AND SHE MIGHT LOVE HIM BUT HE MUST NOT LOVE HER AS MUCH OTHER WIOSE WH WOULD NOT WANT TO CHEAT 4 TIMES.. SHE NEEDS TO KICK HIM TO THE CURB AND QUICK. AND FIND HER SOMEONE ELSE TO GIVE HER AFFECTION TO AND SOMOEN WHO WILLL TREAT HER THE WAY SHE NEEDS TO BE TREATED WITH LVOE AND REPECT NOT LYING IN ANOTHER WOMENS BED HOLDING HER .. HE COULD ALSO GIVE HER A DISEASE ID WATCH FOR THAT AND HE PROBABLY WONT STOP HES JUST USING HER CAUSE SHE IS LETTING HIM GET BY WITH IT...

I've always believe in once a cheater, always a cheater. if a man does it once, he'll do it again and that pretty much applies to almost anything. i too don't understand people to stay in broken relationships. a relationship should be builded on trust, if nothing else. if there is no trust, there is no healthy relationship. i would always think what is he doing. or who is he doing it with. just my opinion.

It's because she REALLY LOVES her boyfriend. She's not the only girl suffering on that situation. Come to think of it. There are other women who were cheated many times by their boyfriend, but still, they always forgive them. In your friend's situation, it seems that her boyfriend doesn't love her anymore.

If your partner cheated on you, your trust in him would be greatly affected. Yes, there is a possibility that you would still forgive him/her once but if he/she does the same thing again or repeatedly, and you still forgive him I think you should ask yourself why. You love your partner so much that you just allow him/her to continually disrespect you? Yes, it is said that we must continually forgive our partners for their shortcomings but cheating on you is another thing. This may even be considered as a ground for divorce/separation according to the Bible. I don't think that the guy really does love your friend, because if he loves her, he wouldn't cheat on her. And if you let your partner do it over and over again, that would also greatly affect your self esteem. That is not healthy.

well if am dating some one an he cheat the first time well i will forgive him yes but if it happens again he gots to go ....their is no trust an love their because very time you forgive him/her they go an cheat again .s person must always respect their partner no matter what trust, an honesty must betheir in oderto have a good relationship .

I had a friend who was cheated on 3 times as well. I have never quite understood why or how she could go through it again and again. But then, i finally found myself in a situation where i couldn't completely let go of this guy. He didn't cheat on me, but he was hanging on to two girls at the same time and i happen to be one of those two and you wouldn't believe the emotional war i had in my mind and heart. I know i should just walk away but something always seems to get in the way of my better judgement. He does this 'thing' to me that makes me want to believe in him, and i just thought of how my friend felt when she had to go through something much worse like cheating and to have him back and to actually find yourself wanting him back, i am sure she had it hard on herself too because i think they really don't know why they keep on going back. I guess you could say, we were following our hearts too much and that we were doing it for love? But then again, aren't people always saying follow your heart? I just think it shouldn't apply to such cases when you were being betrayed again and again. It's just not worth it, and you can somehow tell that it is going to happen again. I think we should all learn to read people better and consider it carefully before making the decision to go back again. Because you might just find yourself hurt again if you blindly throw yourself at his reappearance with nothing else in mind but love. Sometimes, love is just not enough. That's what i think. :)

I was a victim of a cheater too. I know it's not easy to give up with someone that we love. We always hope for them to change and be a better person that is why forgiving and giving them chance is always there with an open hear and mind. Same thing with your friend,i also given my partner few times,i can't remember how many times,becoz i loved him and i was hoping that my love can changed him and is enough reason for him to stop cheating me. But i was wrong...he feels so over confident that i can't live my life without him that is why i keep forgiving him. So,i leave him and make him realize that i can live my life without him. Yes,it hurts,but i need to do it. I can't live my lifetime with someone who is not worth trusting and loving for. And i can say that..once a cheater is always a cheater.

I don't believe that once a cheater is always a cheater. once you cheat, you are likely to do it again. This doesn;t have to be the case. Everyone can change.

For me, once get cheated means that was the last. I won't give her second chance no matter what no matter how. I love myself more then everything, but if she faithful to me.My life was the limit of my faithful to her.

thats right, because sometimes to forgive and forget is good, but when he/she do it oftenly its not good., but you dont need to worry about because cheaters never win. though he/she cheated your heart, dont close your hope but stay stronger.,

The saying goes, "Trick me once, shame on you, trick me twice, shame on me". In this case, 4 times is just too much.

in a situation like this i would say he is a waste of space i used to be the worse for cheating :( i regret it a lot. once a cheater always a cheater is not true. i have known my current boyfriend for 5 years we were on and off all the time. then i came out of a really bad relationship , and realized everything i ever did wrong in a relationship and everything anyone else had done to me. i have now been with my boyfriend a year and half and we are expecting our first baby :) people who cheat need a slap with reality you can't get away with it forever and you will lose

yes i also believe that someone who cheats once goes on cheating again and again in relationships. with time you will stop giving respect to your partner. so better to to breakup than putting yourself into future problems.