when you like someone do you approach him and tell? ahah ^^

girl likes boy^^ - girl approaches boy she likes^^
Portugal
October 19, 2010 10:43am CST
hi guys^^ when you like someone do you approach him and tell?^^ about me i dont ahah if i dont know the guy and have a little crush i cant ahah im too shy to say something actually^^ i know i should but im too shy so i cant ahah^^ but what about you guys?^^ do you approach the person and start talking to see if can be friends and later on maybe more? ahah please share^^
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@shibham (16977)
• India
19 Oct 10
ohhh...sweet. i am also too shy and as you i too can't express my passions to someone that i seek.... and that's why i am still single. don't laugh please.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
19 Oct 10
we are in the same boat brother....
@adel09 (490)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Don't worry...same here...
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
sure i wont laugh^^ but i thought that you loved a girl here in mylot^^ didnt you? what happened? im sorry if your guys broke up. and dont be sad bcs im sure that soon you find a sweet girl^^ we all find it sooner or later. dont lose hope ok?^^ you will see that waiting was worth of it^^ adel you also dont worry you will find someone soon too^^
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Oct 10
^^Most of us are shy and are not extrovert in such cases to approach others, if we like them. It is quite natural.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
21 Oct 10
It depends upon from person to person ^-^. LOL! You are right, if you remain shy, the guys will approach you, instead of you approaching them. It is nice to hear that your boy friend is so cute and nice to you and you really love him. Keep enjoying.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes thats true ahah but many guys are not shy at all and say to girls how they feel^^ i would like to be more sassy sometimes^^ but im ok in being shy^^ that way cute guys can approach me and say that i love you ahah to me^^ thats too cute right?^^ but i have a bf already and he is so cute and so sweet to me^^ i love him really^^
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
As a man...is good thing to approach someone I like. But in the part of women I think it is not a good practice. Because if that will be the case, men abuse that opportunity and ease respect to women...
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
I don't think that way, my friend. Because we are all have rights to express our feelings. But as living here in Asia. We have culture to followed. But if the girl approach a man that she likes and that attitude is for real love. I think that is a good thing but if the approach is for lust only that is a bad thing
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
you think that girls that tell guys they like them are easy girls? you shouldnt think like that they are just showing to the guy that they like him only that^^ also sure is ok if a guy says to a girl thats sweet and romantic ^^ i also prefer that a guy approach me but if a girl likes a guy and he doesnt approach her is ok if she does^^
@hushi22 (4928)
20 Oct 10
when i like someone i just keep quiet and i feel shy talking to him.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
ahah thats cute hushi^^ anyway how did you meet your bf then? did he approach you?^^ i guess so^^ would like to know how your love story was^^ i guess is sweet and romantic^^ ahah but sure only if you want to share with me^^ anyway wish you the best for you and for your bf^^ is nothing wrong to wait that the guy says first^^ since how long he said he liked you?^^
• India
20 Oct 10
About me I would try becoming friend of that girl because friend ship is the first step in a relationship and then I would exceed it but I cannot propose a girl as I am really scared that will she except it or will she refuse it and I am a bit shy too......
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
thats cute that you would like to be friends with her^^ but you wouldnt tell her you like her more than friends bcs you would be afraid of be rejected? im sorry for it but at least now you have a gf that told you she liked you ahah so is all ok^^ you didnt need to say that first. but if she didnt tell she love you maybe you wouldnt tell her so you wouldnt be together till now^^ have a happy day^^
• India
20 Oct 10
I am also so shy to approach any person and tel her that I love her. But I think that one should have to frankly tell that.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes sure^^ we should tell but isnt that easy^^ anyway i see that you are a brave shy and not shy at all ahah^^ thats sweet that you wouldnt lose the chance to be happy just bcs of feeling shy^^ thats very good^^ i liked a guy i mean i had a crush on him but never had courage to tell him^^ ahah anyway thats ok now^^ you are a sweet guy^^ have a happy day^^
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
19 Oct 10
Thank God that he gave me tat corage to approach the one Whom i Liked in my life, My Dream Girl in 1999,I was on the seventh Sky as I was propsing her and wlking with her on that very special day on 1/10/1999. I have also approached you but you are not free yet I think. have a nice day
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
jag thats cute that you proposed her^^ that was some years ago already. what happened? why did she leave you? im sorry for it is sweet that you have the courage to tell how you feel^^ about me i dont know if im free or not. i argued with my bf and i told him that if he thinks i have many bfs that he is free then. he didnt answer me so i dont know if we are still together or not. but right now if this with him doesnt work i dont want to think in love for awhile but thanks for your sweet feelings^^ have a nice day also^^
@adel09 (490)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
I don't think so...I'm kinda shy and I can't afford to do things like doing something just to have a talk to a person I like...maybe I'd rather let the right time comes for us to be friends...
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
ahah yes i understand you^^ you prefer that destiny gives a chance that you guys become friends but without you approach him^^ yes me too im like that^^ when i liked that chinese guy that i saw passing by in a cafe i used to work i never said nothing to him ahah i was too shy actually^^ even one day i thought about leaving him a note but never had courage to ahah^^ im a bit silly
@romzz05 (572)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
When i was young i really cant approach my crush in fact i literally run away from him. Now I'm more confident but I don't say I like you directly i just give out hint and signs if he is still oblivious i ask him out.
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
ahah thats cute that when you were little you ran away ahah anyway is good that now you try to give some hints so he can approach you first^^ and if he doesnt you do right thing asking him out^^ is nothing wrong^^ we cant always wait that guys make the first move right?^^ ahah you are very cool^^ i wish i was like you^^
@harry89 (2330)
• India
19 Oct 10
Well i don't go to her and say as i am also a very shy person. Even if she is my classmate even then i won't tell her as i won't have that much strength to even talk to her, but sometimes i do that through one of my friends. Harry, :-)
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
ahah harry i see you are shy^^ its ok that you tell to your friends and they help you^^ thats too cute^^ me too i would feel too shy if had to tell to a guy i liked ahah i had crush on guy before a chinese one and never had courage to tell him how i felt^^ anyway is ok now^^ i rather wait that guys tell me how they feel first ahah^^ but that guy i guess he didnt like me at all^^ have a happy day and the best with that girl^^
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
19 Oct 10
I couldn't do it...or at least I couldn't do it if he doesn't show me a little bit of interest. if he shows he's interested in me maybe I could go and talk to him but I would't have the courage to ask him out. call me old fashion but I think it's tge guy's role to invite a girl out
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
its cute that if he shows interest in you you would talk with him^^ thats good^^ yes about approach the guy is true i also prefer that the guy approaches me ahah is not old fashion but i mean i cant bcs im too shy of it^^ some time ago there was a chinese guy i had a crush on and i wanted ask his number to be friends with him and i never had courage to ahah even thought about write him a note but couldnt ahah^^ was afraid my family found out and teased me ahah^^
19 Oct 10
normally i am too shy to let them know so i twist things the other way around. I would spend time just chatting to them and i would hope that they would then tell me that they are interested in me, which helps as it saves me from possibly getting rejected.
• Portugal
19 Oct 10
ahah craigy^^ thats cute that you are shy to tell them and try that they say something^^ yes sure that way you are not rejected but imagine if the girl is shy too and is waiting that you say something? ahah after awhile if she doesnt say something to you, you dont advance?^^ you should^^ or can lose a chance to be happy^^ and you deserve^^