Do you give people the ONCEOVER?

I totally hate that! Last week, management issued out house rules - collared blouse, slacks or conservative skirt, close shoes and well-groomed hair. I have not read about it until two days after. The day of release of the memo, I was running late, I wore a sabrina cut top and my fitflops (love 'em!) and my hair had gone crazy because of the wind. At the elevator, this rude guy looked at me - my hair, down to my chest () and then down my feet. I felt so bad about it until I read the memo. Now I think he was thinking that I was such a walking violation!

Hi sweetie. I hate it when people look that. But as this old madam have such exquisite manners, you do it like this next time. Look him up and down in exactly the same way as he did with you. Then you start with the little list in telling him what you find wrong with his dressing, hair whatever, even if there is nothing wrong at all. That is always a winner. Have fun. TATA.

I find that the only people who really do that are snotty people who are judging you by your looks and trying to "size you up", and I also find it really annoying. One of my friends actually does this without even realizing it or trying to be offensive, but I find it offensive regardless. I don't take it personally though, I usually just chock it up to jealousy. They're jealous of how you look, most likely, and the best thing you can really do is roll your eyes at their ridiculousness.

I am very discouraged and uncomfortable when I am given the once over by someone. i try not to return that favor. i would not want to cause someone to feel that same discomfort.

It's unfortunate that people just do this out of habit. Although they don't mean to, I guess it's a way to assert themselves. By sizing whoever they are with. Specially in a lift which would be a bit dangerous if you turned out to be an unsavory character, even if you're modestly dressed, with sleeves, and skirt up to ankles.

I totally hate that, as if they need visual approval first. I cannot stand when people do that, I almost want to blurt out hmm, see something you liked or didn't

hi moon. as a guy i have no problem but i have seen some peoples stare on girls as they have not ever seen. it really irritates me. thanks that you are too sincere on your dress. no need to show what you have, right? take care.

Hi bluemoonpavilion! Yes it feels very uncomfortable. And to be frank I hate it too. I think it's more of a habit. Otherwise, those who do this may just have a complex. Perhaps they don't feel good about themselves.

yes same as me i hate if the neighbors looking me like that cause this looking is like want eat or judge for our clothes for it if they want say you so cool or beauty its fine maybe for me ... why they do that

really uncomfortable for me. if someone saw me with that look unusual and i will ammediately divert the attention of others to him. so he knows that he is doing is making other people uncomfortable. sa that he understands that a view can also be a more beautiful and attrative when it's done medipcre and not excessive especially looking from head to toe with the excess. i think it offended the feelings of others.