What would you do if you saw your greatest enemy in life?
By Leendrein
@Leendrein (21)
Philippines
October 20, 2010 2:35am CST
I didn't expect that i will meet my greatest enemy in life ever. We met and worked in the same company. We started as friends and i treated her as one of my closes friends. Until the time comes that she asked me a favor to become her co-maker because she's planning to loan/borrow a money. I helped her without second thought. But all of a sudden she left the company without any notice. And all her secrets revealed. Except to me, there are 3 more person that she asked the same favor like what she asked to me. She escaped to all her credits and the loaner company want me to pay all of the money that she borrowed from them because i am her co-maker. Now i met her again. And what really funny is? We are working with the same company again. How about you, what would you do?
9 responses
@abmacasinag (518)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
What happened to all her credits?did you pay for it?did the credit collection company force you to pay for it?
Small world huh? If I'am at your place, I will surely talk to her about what she did, and If I use my money to pay for her debts I will definitely ask her to pay me back. And one thing for sure I will not trust her ever again and I will not befriend her ever again.
@Leendrein (21)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
I don't have any choice that time, because the company had my atm as collateral. So they deducted on my salary to pay her credits.
@sfcreyes24 (129)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
I will ignore him but i believe in the saying that love your enemy. And i think we should have reconciliation. It's better to forgive than to have enemy
@amit066 (41)
• India
20 Oct 10
well,while looking at the topic, i though that you may hint at face off with the enemy but as it goes like a reunion.So Meeting a enemy or having a face to face unknowingly may spurt loads of hormones and unpleasant reactions.I remember meeting one of my "kind of Enemy',whom i ignored first but he revert back to me started conversations.To my surprise,He was calm and talking placidly,later we had coffee and came to those memory which caused us to fight.seriously, i felt very peaceful and enjoyed the moments with that guy.i think its all depend on human nature and circumstances.As in your case,your friend was in need of money and you helped..
@Leendrein (21)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
How can i say hello and give her a smile back? It's not just the money involved. It's our friendship. I don't care about the money or how much i paid for her credit. I can earn it.
@etmahawanD (65)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
if you can still prevent your temper to the stupid thief women, just dont mind her, or probable quit if you can, find another job, just for you to move on., though ist not too easy to do it but for the sake that you can't make a great scandal on that company, lol =
@Krizz420canada (531)
• Canada
21 Oct 10
Wow don't do exactly what I would do but it wouldn't be pretty and I definitely would get fired if I worked with him. Your in a rough situation because you need the job but then you got to see this person everyday. Just hope they quit and hopefully you can go on.
@hushi22 (4928)
•
20 Oct 10
well, i saw her lately. hahaha. for me it was just a laugh because she hasn't succeeded with anything on her life. sorry to say. but it seems like a bad karma. hmmm...i dont like her because she defeated a lot of students during our highschool years by paying money to our teachers and administrators. a lot of my classmates cried because of her.
@jasonnaez (134)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I can empathize with how aggrieved you must be over what your friend has done to you. Truly, the worst is to get betrayed by someone close and trusted. I went through this kind of ordeal before and I admit the feeling was nasty. I regarded the friend who had broken trust as my worst enemy. Just the thought of the person used to put me in a fit. But I learned so many valuable lessons from the experience and it changed my entire outlook in life. After prolong introspection, I came to realize that what I should hate most is the sin and not the person. The person whom I hated, just like me, is imperfect and full of flaws after all. Since we are both sinners, for me to continue hating the person is hypocritical on my part. My change of heart enabled me to accept back my friend without necessarily condoning his sinful act. With genuine concern I was able to pin point to my friend what he did and its negative consequences to him. With humility he accepted that he was wrong, apologized and affirmed not to do it again. In closing, allow me to say that PRIDE is actually our worst enemy because it prevents us from seeing what we really ought to see in life. Pride precedes enmity. Pride must be weeded out if we want to experience joy, love and abundance. GOD BLESS YOU!