Do you feel bad when you are scolded by your elder or think about it?
By xorticanz
@xorticanz (377)
India
October 20, 2010 11:12am CST
To answer this i will first think about the situation. I feel all as human beings do mistakes. Do we really dont commit that again. I hope we do commit again without our knowledge that it is bad right. This is where an elder's thought should be thought of. We will not commit it as the elders in the family has said about it before and we know why it is not good for us this time. I am always open to my negatives at the same time i would like to be credited for my positives also. Everyone is unique and we are born in this world for a reason to live. I am sure all of you would have faced this and I am happy that you would have got over it in a special manner. Share your thoughts on how you manage your elder's thoughts.
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@ivanmarginal (675)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 10
As members of our family grows older and older, we manage to have some frictions.
Yeah, it is natural in way. We argue over anything we treat in different way. But, it is how life should be. I always take it for granted. Whenever older family member, say, scold me, I just smile and laugh at him/her. Scolding for me means nothing. If he/she feels righter than me, don't scold me, but tell me how is the right thing should be.
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@gunjanpri (603)
• India
20 Oct 10
definitely, especially when you are grown up and can decide on your own what is right for you. Then if someone scolds you, you feel bad.
@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Elders are there to guide us, correcting to some of our mistakes but honestly it sometime turn so annoying. I remember way back when I was a teenager, I am often scolded by my parents, relative or my grandparents for some reason which I believe I have also gravely committed. But at some point it wasn't helping at all because my tendency at that point was to be rebellious because for me the situation has been aggravated in which case I don't want to listen any more, anyway, I have passed that stage. During our adult life things change though my folks do make suggestions instead of scolding me.
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