Is It Too much To ask "For better and For worse"?
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14460)
Indonesia
October 20, 2010 3:35pm CST
When we marriage we expect the happiness and the joy, but sometimes we forget that there will be sorrow and pain.
and when a couple encounter the sorrow, the bond of marriage seem decrease. their choice are tend to divorce. because they think it is better to divorce because it can releases the pain. but they forget that better and worse is one packet in marriage.
But we tend to seek happiness and avoid sorrow.
what do you think about this?
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2 responses
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 10
Of course, everyone would avoid the sadness and happiness approach. Grief in marriage, is a test. Strong or not the exam, depending on each person. I have sadness in my marriage, I've decided to divorce. But for one thing, and for my child, I would not be divorced. Despite living under pressure, there is little happiness.
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@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
21 Oct 10
Divorce is not advisable. But some inevitable situation leads us to that path. Normally family life is disturbed with other problems and finally divorce remain the final path. But if we try to find the cause which leads us to that path and try to solve that problem I think happiness regain itself to the family life.
Normally both the husband and wife ignore own fault and try to highlight others fault. Tolerances is needed to maintain a peaceful family life. I think no couple can be happy after divorce. Moreover that it effect on the psychology of their child. At the time of family conflict though it is looked to us that divorce bring happiness, practically in is not possible. The broken relation is always painful.
But I agree that some sever situation comes to the life that in that situation there is no other path the to divorce.
