It is really enjoying if you have kids?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
8 responses
@Krizz420canada (531)
• Canada
21 Oct 10
Yes kids are great but in another way to much responsibility especially in today's world. At one point having a child was easier for families to do because one parent could easily work and bring home enough to support a family of two or three fairly well. Nowadays unless your a doctor or something along those lines, It's way to hard for one parent to support a entire family. People can disagree all they want but its true. Don't get me wrong I love kids and everything but its much harder nowadays raising them and being around to enjoy all the little moments.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hello Kriz.. you have a point in there. Those mothers who always think the good future to their kids have only 2 or three kids only. Because they believe that plenty kids are not good because they cannot take care of them especially they cannot give what they wanted if they are plenty. I like those mothers who always think their children not in their own happiness. I always heard that kids makes us happier and fade our problems.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead.
Godbless
@ldloverose (64)
• Vietnam
6 Nov 10
If everyone in this world keep thinking like u, then i think that this world will soon ends and come back to the Stone Age. Coz no more kids will be born, haha. Oh, and then who will take care of u when u get old without your children?
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
Hi,
I do agree with your sister's word. Kids can be an entertainer for us and
it is always fun to play together with our own kids.
I am a mother of one son and I love to play with my son.
Since I am a fulltime mother, I spent most of my time with my
son. His smiles is so sweet and I always feel happy being with him.
I treasure every moment i spent with him .He is
definitely my little sunshine.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hello Shia. I think your the best mother with your son because you have all your time with him and you can always watch him, loving him and caring him. I also saw that even those mothers are tired of whole day work, when they are going home and see their children, their tiredness fade away with the hug and kisses of their children. How I wish I can have also baby to take care.
@Idloverose, well, I agree with you that shia is a great mother to her son.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead.
Godbless
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
a hug and a kiss from your child can take all the tiredness away. having a child is a big responsibility, it is not just having fun. you have to be emotionally ready and financially ready as well. if your only reason is to play with them, then i guess that is not a good reason for you to be wanting a child. you have to be ready with sleepless nights, cutting off your budget for yourself and buy what your child needs, and a lot more in between. if you think that you are ready then it is time for you to have one. goodluck.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
I think you are right. Maybe, i have my own kids so that I felt what those mother felt.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@doormouse (4599)
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21 Oct 10
it depends whether you actually want them or not,some people feel that they have to have kids to fit in,then their lives are miserable,but if you really want kids then they are a blessing,i know a couple that never wanted kids and just have a dog instead,they are really happy and even though they know people with kids they would never want one themselves
@ldloverose (64)
• Vietnam
6 Nov 10
I think these people are not human yet, are they? I Can't believe that they just want some dogs instead of kids. How horrible it is.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
21 Oct 10
Having children is one of the most rewarding experiences you can have in life. They can bring you more joy and happiness than you could ever imagine possible. It isn;t always a bed of roses to raise. There will be troubles and sorrows along the way. The loving relationship you can have with a child is worth the sacrifice.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hello sender. Yeah, having a children is the most precious gift from God to us because not all people blessed to have a child. So, those parents who have kids, you better thankful to HIM all the time. I know that its hard to be a perfect parents to their children but if you give your best to them, they also think that you are the best mother in the whole world and they are proud of you.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead.
Godbless
@chechehyrum2485 (35)
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20 Nov 10
i would say yes,infact words are not enough to explain how enjoying it is to have kids,no matter how hard they are to raise,but all this hardships could easily be replaced by happiness,its an overwhelming feeling seeing and watching your kids grow...witnessing thier development every step of the day
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
8 Nov 10
Well she is right, having kids will give you enjoyment and somehow relieve you when you are tired. But, having kids has its downs too especially if you are not financially or emotianally ready.
having kids are expensive and can be time consuming. You can't just put them to bed when you are done with them . You will also have to deal with them when they're on tantrums which will literally give you headache.
But of course, it doesn't happen everyday . I habe a 10 month old daughter, and she's the gratest thing in my life that I've ever had.
@ldloverose (64)
• Vietnam
6 Nov 10
Of course CAREGUARDEN. I think people we all love kids. And if there is anyone who doesn't love kids, they may rethink about that. Even we're here now, we was lovely kids ^^