My Latest Situation
By nvvn2015
@nvvn2015 (86)
United States
October 20, 2010 9:46pm CST
A while back, I had a post saying how I liked a girl, and from some mistake, she ended up finding out that I like her. Now, i figured out she had a boyfriend. Right after the day she found out to yesterday, she was going out with this guy who I guess is my rival( we both are good at basketball, we both competed in competitions, etc). What confuses me is that they claimed it was fake. How could going out with someone be fake? And did they do it because of me to stop me from being rejected? I need advice. What should I do? I want to ask her to the dance next friday the 29th, but I already know she doesnt like me.
4 responses
@starrose_ara (784)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
If you believe that she does not like you then don't waste your time on her. Sounds like she is just impress with your reaction, admiration on her. Move on because the world is not short of girls who deserve you better. If at the start of a would be relationship starts with lies then it is not worth keeping.
@nvvn2015 (86)
• United States
22 Oct 10
I can't get her out of my head, though. She's like all I think about, and no matter what I do, I still like her. Here's a twist, actually: I overheard her ex boyfriend saying to his friend that that was just a cover story, because she broke up with him/
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
Try to look for another girl. I think it is much better to look for other than to spend your time to the girl that doesn't like you. Try to forget her. The right girl for you will come in the right time. Maybe he using fake boyfriend because she don't know how to tell you that you must try to look for another.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
if the girl knows that you like her and she is pretending she is going out with your "enemy" maybe she is doing that to show you she doesnt like you or the opposite. why dont you go talk with her and tell her how you feel? maybe she likes you^^ ask her to the dance yes^^ if she isnt going out with that guy is nothing wrong if you ask her^^ but if she says no is bcs doesnt like you the same way you like her. but you have nothing to lose by inviting her^^ and if you be rejected it can hurt but at least you know that you tried to be with girl you like^^ and that you fought for be with her^^ so should be proud after all^^ 
go ahead and dont be afraid to ask her^^ 
then tell me how it went^^ if she accepted or not^^
go ahead and dont be afraid to ask her^^ then tell me how it went^^ if she accepted or not^^
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
ARe you saying that they pretended to be dating each other just to put you off? If this is what you mean, I believe that it's probably true. Yes, it's possible to fake going out with somebody if the intention is to put off the person that you don't like or if you want the person to get jealous because he doesn't have the guts to propose,thinking this might motivate him to do so.
Girl's mind is very complicated. Why do I say this? I've been there and done that when I was in my teens. I would pretend to have a boyfriend even if I don't to stop the a guy from chasing me because i absolutely dislike him. So, therefore, what I'm telling you is if you already knew she doesn't like you, what's the point in asking her out? But if you want to take the risk then by all means do so, because i might be wrong.
