Do You Leave Comment to the Response Received for Your Initiated Discussion ?

@AKRao24 (27424)
India
October 21, 2010 4:00am CST
Mylot is basically a discussion forum, which means there has to be an interaction amongst the members. After initiating a discussion, we get response from various members and we are supposed to interact with them to make it as an actual discussion. But many a times I have seen that people just post their discussion and there after don't even bother to look at the responses. Frankly speaking I was also one of them initially. But now having understood the concept of the orum , I try to interact with the people and try to respond to the responses received for my discussion initiated. This gives a good feeling and sense of satisfaction. How about you do you sincerely reciprocate or respond to the responses received for your discussions ? Please respond! Thanks!
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• Philippines
22 Oct 10
Thank you for pointing that out. I've been wondering about that, I was thinking there may be rules about posting comments to the responses? I am new to forums that is why I would really appreciate tips from you guys.
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Oct 10
Welcome dear Annacelle toMylot! This is basically a discussion form , where the members are expected to discuss on a given topic.By simply posting a response and forgetting about it won't mae it a discussion. In a discussion there has to be an interaction between two individuals or amongst various individuals. Until unless there is no dialogue how can we call it as a discussion? Thanks for responding!
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Oct 10
You are most welcome! Yes that's true one gets the feeling of frustration if proper response as expected from the members is not received in spite of our sincere and honest efforts in responding to one's discussion! I can very well understand this ! Thanks dear annacelle for responding!
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
Yeah, thank you friend. I was reading some posts the other day and thought it was kind of weird, you know, like some would ask for suggestions but even if they already got responses they do not bother to acknowledge them. Why ask for opinions or start a discussion in the first place, I mean even if one does it to earn, still it is not right to ignore those who make efforts even if it is also in the name of money. Cheers!
@iamjesca (185)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
I am guilty about that. I try my best to comment on every response on the discussions I have posted. But I cannot keep up at all. There are many responses I get for every discussions I have made. I really appreciate all the efforts and time they have given. I will try to change and comment on all the response as I can.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Oct 10
Thanks dear iamjesca, for you have now decided to change your self and respond to the responses in the form of comments. Please do it, fellow members feel very happy to see a response they get for their response and thus we also can keep a discussion alive!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
21 Oct 10
I always comment on all my responses because I am so thankful for their time! It is the general idea of this site to reply to each other and it is also a good way to earn because a discussion may receive 100 responses but if the starter does not comment he or she will not be paid except for the initial post. Aside from that I think it just common courtesy to post a reply!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
21 Oct 10
Yes Paula you are right. Leaving apart the earning aspect,it is just common courtesy we expect from the person whom we responded. This helps one to move further in the discussion as various responses received for a single discussion gives a direction to the discussion andmakes it more interesting1 Thanks for responding!
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@megamatt (14291)
• United States
21 Oct 10
Yes, I do try and respond to the responses. I do admit though that a lot of the time, there might be a couple of responses here and there, that I might miss but I really do not miss them on purpose. There are just a lot of time where it would be foolish not to respond. I mean, you can get some good dialogue going a lot of the time and it can really make the topic active, perhaps leading to more people to hop on. Plus, the fact is that you do get paid for the topics. I am not one for throwing some potential money away. So that is an added incentive. Plus it just is interesting to interact with people and it does in fact show that the people that are talking in your topic are interesting enough to respond to. So there is really no point in not responding to discussions. I do my best to try to keep up in those topics.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
21 Oct 10
I agree with you dear Megamatt that some times because of certain reasons we tend to miss few of the topics or discussions without responding them. But like you said deliberately not responding is not a proper way of participating in a discussion. I agree that participating in the form of response definitely fetch other members into the discussion and this makes the discussion more interesting and lively one' may be as you said if this can increase one's earnings why not then help him/her in doing so just by responding to the discussion! Thanks , your views are really appreciated!
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
I always try to make it a point to respond or comment on the responses from discussions that I've started. Yes you're right, this is an interactive site, where people should have an interchange of ideas and opinions. Communication is a 2-way process. It is but common courtesy to express your appreciation and comment to people who responded to you. If ever, I don't really have an opinion about the response, the least that I can do is to give a rating. Those are the + - ! symbols that we see on the lower portion of the response block. This is something that many forget to give. It is our responsibility to give ratings because it increases the status of our fellow myLotters, it's also a way of appreciating the effort put by posting a response or comment.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Oct 10
That is really nice of you dear hippiemomdiaries that you sincerely respond to the discussions and responses. It is really very encouraging for the person who posts it. It pampers one's ego and makes one feel better! Another part of your response about rating, it is really an effort which needs appreciation, indeed! This rating helps in rating a individual's performance and further increment in the star rating of the individual. While appreciating this efforts of your I convey my thanks for every thing.
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
22 Oct 10
I like to respond to the comments in my discussions. It's really good to see that your topic is interesting for somebody. But I had I real, live dialogue just a couple of times. I live in Eastern Europe and my time zone is GMT+2, so I can't catch most of the myLotters online. But I see that some people don't bother to respond. Maybe they can't understand that the best side of a website like my Lot is not the cash earning.
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Oct 10
That's very true dear fannitia ! Who wouldn't like that some one is liking his/her idea, it boosts up one Morales and makes one happy. It creates a feel good sensation in one! Time disparity many times makes a lot of difference in getting the responses, that is true. But then later also one can respond if desired! I fully agree with you that the forums like Mylot are not meant for making money. This site is basically meant to participate constructively in some interesting discussions and to have a good and quality time on net! Thanks dear for participating!
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
21 Oct 10
I always try to comment on the responses I get to the few discussions I post. As you say, it cannot really be a discussion unless the person who initiates it has something further to say (or, at least, others comment meaningfully on the responses). Many people are here primarily in the hope of earning money. It is very sad, sometimes, that it is just these people who fail to understand that posting a topic for discussion is only the beginning. Usually these people have never taken the trouble to find out what MyLot is or to read the Guidelines. One of the most common questions (and quite naturally so) is "How does MyLot work?" or "How do I earn here?". There is usually no lack of people to post at length and to explain exactly what MyLot is and how it works (it is one of the friendliest forums I know) but, very often, it is to no avail because one STILL finds these newcomers posting questions (which will often get deleted) and either just saying "Thanks for responding" or, more often, just nothing. We have to forgive and understand that some people have very little English and, though they may understand the responses, find it very difficult to write more than a sentence or two. That is not MyLot's fault, however. It is what it is and, if nothing else, we hope that a few people will stick around to learn better English (which they undoubtedly do) and to practise the noble (and very much forgotten) art of discussion!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
21 Oct 10
You are absolutely right Mr.Owlwings. I think mostly people on this forum are keen on making money than actually partiipating in any discussion. I think this is something like a get together where we get opportunity to meet several people, of which some are known to us and some are new. We get ourselves introduced to these new face and have a conversation or discussion. Similarly here also I think we should in fact discuss a topic of discussion at length. There are prosand cons for every subject. One can have healthy discussion by taking onepoint at a time. By doing so it is not only the justice done to a discussion which counts, but it also helps one to get aquinted with new friends after knowing their views! Thanks for expressing your views!
@speedy1279 (2665)
• United States
21 Oct 10
I know exactly what you mean. It is very frustrating when you try to help someone out and answer thier question only to feel like you have been ignored because they couldn't take the time to respond back to you. I actually try to keep in mind those people that I have previously responded to that never respond back, that way I can avoid thier future discussions. As for myself, I don't start too many discussions. But I always try to go back and respond to any and all responses I get. Now it may take me a few days to get back to them. As I don't sit here on mylot 24 hours a day. I have a house to take care of, children to raise, and an actual paying part time job. But I do get back to them as soon as I can. So if you ever respond to one of my discussions and don't get a response back from me right away, give me a day or two then check back. Most likely by then I will have responded.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
21 Oct 10
Yes dear Speedy, you are right it is not only frustrating and disheartening, but the basic aim of discusion gets defeated if we don't get response from our fellow members! Until unless there is no interaction there is no fun in participating on this forum ! Just posting ones discussion and forgetting about is some thing like writing a slogan on a wall! Thanks friend for participating!
• India
24 Oct 10
Hello Rao I always comment back on all responses i receive on my discussions, may be late, but i do, it is necessary too, to selet one as 'best response' to resolve the discussion, if not it keeps appearing in the list of 'unresolved' discussions.. Thanks for sharing. Professor. . Cheers
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
24 Oct 10
Your right Dear Professor,unless we don't revisit our discussion we can't mark Best Response amongst the received ones! Yes apart from that to make the discussion to continue further I feel one should respond back in anticipation of subsequent response. In fact a discussion progresses like that only, No? Thanks for responding!