how will you know if your love ones is having an affair?

When he/she start acting differently, that is when you have to be cautious.

That question has been asked here for so many times. There are many in here who have experienced the situation, and many can share their experiences. Signs that your bf/gf or husband/wife has an affair? There are many. Observe or notice his/her behaviors. Most of the time, their behavior and what they say are in contradiction. He asks permission to go out with his friends, officemates or cousins, but the truth is that he is seeing someone else. Another sign, he hides when someone texts him/her. Same thing when he/she receives a call from that someone. Another sign, he/she can't look straight to the eyes when you are confronting him/her. He/she tends to stay over time at work, when he/she is not. Another sign, he suddenly become so sweet to you. He keeps stuff, same with his passwords on the net. There are really many signs, just be observant.

well to know that is not easy but there are some tips. if your gf is always talking about other guy, if she doesnt care much to spend time with you, if she is a bit cold when you talk with each other.. those are the ways to know. anyway i wish that she doesnt do that to you. but if you suspect of something try to be sweet and caring and see how she reacts. if she doesnt care back is bcs something is really wrong :(

well you will notice that your gf/bf is having an affair if it's a fling only and he/she will feel guilty about it then he/she will be extra sweet, loving and thoughtful. But if he/she is really serious about it then he/she will mostly be out of sight, out of reach and you will feel his/her cold treatment towards you. And if he/she is inlove with the third party then sooner or later he/she will show you that you are no longer important and wanted a break up.

He's having an affair if he's not doing the same things with you or he does not care anymore whatever you do as if you don't exist. If he's not then you don't have to worry, sometimes too much familiarity is boring, give more space and be playful and don't divulge yourself in too much worrying. The tale tell signs are not hard to notice, just be honest and accept things as it is! No self denying please!

yes I know, usually is changed lover having affair and many reasons not clear,

You will get a gut wrenching feeling like never before. Most people cannot hide forever the fact that an affair is happening. They will do some things different in their routines and you will pick up on it if you pay attention to them at all. I am saying this out of experience. I have dealt with this and I knew it had occurred and questioned the person about it. Of course they lied at first but the truth came out eventually.

That's hard. Sometimes our intuition tells us something fishy is going on, but you know the 11th commandment, Don't get caught. And of course the 12th commandment, Don't admit. The truth is we don't want the truth, simply because we are in love and we don't really want to love our love one.The blind man can see better than a woman foolish in love. At the end of the day, we have to face our fears. And must not settle for less. (^_^)

well you will notice that your gf/bf is having an affair if it's a fling only and he/she will feel guilty about it then he/she will be extra sweet, loving and thoughtful. But if he/she is really serious about it then he/she will mostly be out of sight, out of reach and you will feel his/her cold treatment towards you. And if he/she is inlove with the third party then sooner or later he/she will show you that you are no longer important and wanted a break up.

well, if he/she lies to you. Then if he/she keeps on making excuses. Also if he/she keeps on explaining without you asking. Those are the signs. But sometimes, its hard to notice.