how often do u hang-out with friends?

Philippines
October 21, 2010 5:22pm CST
how ofter do u hang out with your friends? When i was younger and single,i often hang out with my closest friends.But now that i have my life being a mother and a housewife not anymore,if there is a chance only if there are special occasions,some of them also are in abroad now and some are here but has also their new lives as husbands and wives.But i wish to be with them someday with our spouses and children.How about you?
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@kerrina (104)
• Canada
22 Oct 10
i too am going through the same thing kind of. I've been living with my boyfriend since i was 15 and I still am living with him. when i was single i would always hang out with my friends but because he has a son also it's kind of hard to have my own free time.. you know, cleaning the house, cooking etcetera. i am slowly joining extra cirricular activities that involve my interest like hip hop and such. and joining this so i can mkake a teeny bit more money. :)
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@Seisho7 (171)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 10
everyday I hangout with my friends to make some fun :D
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
very seldom. i don't like being surrounded with people especially with those i'm not used to be with or just acquainted. i prefer being alone, it's more relax for me. good thing though i have no family on my own yet. so i can just be with whoever and whenever or just go wherever without thinking of family.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
22 Oct 10
Well right now no not really I don't really hang out with my friends as often as I used to I hardly ever get to see them, but the only way that we communicate through is facebook that's how we all keep in touch these days. Maybe when I finally get a job and my own place that's when I will be able to hang with my frinds. My friends always invite me to parties and all that , but I never get to go because my dad never lets me which makes me really sad that I am already 18, but apparently my dad does not see it that way. I guess the only way that I could prove myself as an adult would have to be that I would have to act like one. Right now though not so good, but I want to be able to hang out with my friends as soon as possible because I feel so lonely in this world right now. So I need to start applying to those jobs again because I want to be on my own soon and I am never going to be able to do it with out a job or maybe I me and my friends could apply to the same jobs so that we can see each other more often like during a lunch break that would be awesome. My mom since she is a mother she always stays home a lot to clean and do chores, but I also do help, but she does miss hanging out with all her friends where we used to live. Anyway happy mylotting and I am sure that a lot of people love to hang out with friends it's just that a lot don' get too.Never fun when that happens.
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
Well,I actually hang out with friends almost everyday.But now, Our semester break is nearly approaching, seems like, we will not be together again, because some of them will not be studying at the same school anymore, or some might just stop studying.
• China
24 Oct 10
Friends is never care about you'll always be there for you when you help the difficulties of friends who will be have own family will have their own businss,we can only bless each other!
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
Hi! Unlike you, I still do not have a husband nor children. So I am free with obligations. Yet, I still do not have a chance to hang-out with my old friends since I do not have that large amount of money. When I was still working with my previous job, I hang-out more often with my ex-boyfriend that with my friends. My ex-boyfriend and I usually went out the malls or movie houses or go on beaching especially during my off.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 10
HI, When I was single, I used to hang out with my friends every weekend. we will out for shopping and then sit at cafe for a cup of coffee. I can say I will be out from home in the morning and only be back home at night. But after I got married and have child, I seldom hang-out with my friends. I just don't have the free time to do it and I really need to spent time with my family.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
22 Oct 10
I don't hang out with friends as often as I did in the past. When you have a family to take care of, you have different priorities. I still need time for my friends, but my family does have to come first.
• United States
22 Oct 10
I go out and do something with my girlfriends about once every month or 2. But we see each other quite a bit, we all have young children, so we get together with our kids alot. Once a month or so my husband and I go out to dinner or do something with our best friends, who happen to be married to each other so it works out nicely!
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
before,when i was still a student,i do hang out with friends after school. we belong to a university near mall areas so,after school,it became our habit to hang out in malls nearby. and have some bonding time. also when i started to work,there are times after shift,we do eat along the area and spend time for a while before heading home. but as we grow older,some of friends do have their own families,it is not the same as before. if there's hang out times,it would be one whole day to spend and the next time is always far away. bonding moments lessens but we still need to communicate to each other using cellphones or internet. if you really treasure them in your heart,no matter how they far to you. it's like relationship between your two eyes.they blink together,move together.cry together,see things together,and sleep together, even though they never see each other.friendships should be just like that.
@iamjesca (185)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
I always hang out with my friends. I am still single so I have all the time to hang out with them. They just text me that they are in one place and I would definitely go. We usually hang out on a friday night and get some drinks talk about things. When I was much younger I always hang out with them. Like I dont want to be away from them at all. LOL! Because its always fun to be with friends. All the laugh trips and going home late at night. I would definitely miss my night life when I get married. Its like losing a big part of you. But I guess priorities will change when you get married.
@JEpisanD (43)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
When i was in high school i always go out with my friends but, now it's to seldom to hang-out with them it's because some are far and some are busy with their lives.
@Yada25 (44)
22 Oct 10
It is often for me to hang out with my friends at work even if now it less frequent compare to when I was younger. I think when you grow up you have more responsibilities with take all your time. And because you all the time busies and also your friends that why it is harder to hang out with friends.
22 Oct 10
I don't really have the time to spend with my friends, either they're busy or I am which is a shame. When I started working at my last place, I spent most Fridays going down town with a group of friends who was mostly from work. I would like to manage to find time but between everything I need to do, I just don't have the time right now. Fingers crossed after Christmas things will slow down which will allow me to be able to spend more time with my family and friends.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
Even though I am not yet married, having a job somehow gives me the same situation as not being able to be with my friends as much as I would like to. They too would have their own jobs to deal with and our schedules would probably be different so, we really can't hang out even if we do want to. The only possible times that we can do hangout would be holidays or weekends but, in my case, holidays can't be all available. On weekends, some of us would prefer to rest up for the following weekdays to come. In your case, it is indeed harder, you have to be around the house and maintain the things there. Taking care of the children as well as preparing things for every member in the family. We might get to see our friends but, not as often. We also end up making new friends with the new lives that we have yet, those that we had before for a long time are still memorable, none the less.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
I hang out with my friends on special occasions, like their birthdays or mine. On family occasions as well such as weddings of the children or fiestas n their places. I see them too when sometimes we miss each other's company.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 10
I never hang out with my friends. I am now is a wife, I had to do something with the permission of my husband. I sometimes want to hang out with my friends, but my husband does not like. So I never hang out with my friends.
@hushi22 (4928)
22 Oct 10
with my best friends we have this monthly get together, but sometimes it ended up with every weekend because one of us is easily bored.
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
I used to hangout with my friends after classes, but now no more. I need to go home after class, specially because I have scheduled every night to chat with my boyfriend. And also because I don't want to disappoint him about my studies. But ofcourse I need to also socialized sometimes but not often.