do you think its a good idea to loan money to a friend or family member.. ? why

Lending money to anybody is not a good idea because once you lend your money, you have to expect the worst situation. That is your money may not be returned. Otherwise at the end you will feel bad. If the money can be returned, then you can regard it as a luck. I love China

i dnt think that is a good idea. it might affect the relationship. i heard the same advise from my mom many times.

No- and the reasons for not are the reasons they invented television court shows. I also would advise against making large monetary "gifts" to friends and relatives. They will only come back for more.

both side is not good for me to loan a money. if you loan money in your friends maybe we can make mis undrstanding and friendship is very important, second is family,, ive never ever loan a money to my family its because it can make conflict to your relationship as a family maybe sometimes can make misjudge. its not good to be like that its all because of money matter. id rather to loan in a lending companny that not realated to me.