which is better leaveing someone or being left by someone
By ever_purple
@ever_purple (522)
Philippines
October 21, 2010 10:44pm CST
a lot of people say its better to leave than being left. but sometimes its better to be left than being the one who left someone. base on my own experience its more hard for my heart to carry being the one who leaves but sometimes i'll rather choose it cause it really hurt being left!!
10 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
I don't think there is a better decision when it comes to love.
Thu it really hurts to be left by someone,but if leaving can give him joy and happiness then let it be.
Last night i can say that,i made the final decision to leave someone.
It hurts me,but i realized why should i prolong my pain when at the end of it all is goodbyes.
So,last night i deleted him in my Facebook account after our conversation.
I don't know how to describe my feelings now,was it sad,or feeling of relief,i really don't know.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
well in that case i guess its the best option to leave than being with that person and end up that you both hurt each other!! you can get through it!!=)
@chhetp1 (467)
• India
22 Oct 10
Life is very strange. Therefore, It would be wrong to say that leaving somebody would be better or being left by someone. There is loss in both the situation and most of the times the initial response might not be as painful as one would think. However, the vicious circle of life definitely brings the situations where we have to think about the time when we left somebody. I myself have experience this way numerous times. I guess this is what we call the tragic play of life and this is what I call the hope for better future.
@mhy_pie03 (68)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
To a more firm principle, I believe it's being left behind but iif you notice that things get worst by staying into the relationship then might as well initiating the action of going separate ways. But of course be mindful and sensitive of person's feeling but this is better than hurting each other at the end.
@invisiblelady (1655)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
As for me, I'd rather be left than be the one who leaves... Don't know why... I always feel that way. I hate to hurt someone...
@miranda521 (427)
• China
22 Oct 10
For me,I think it is better to leave someone.I do not like being left,it is so shameful.But I really don't hurt anyone else,I just don't want myself to be hurt.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Oct 10
I do not know how to quite answer this as either way you see it, it has to hurt. But I suppose if the pain is being caused by someone else then I suppose leaving the person would be best.
