How will i get rid of my father's mistress?....

Philippines
October 22, 2010 3:33am CST
Were going on a vacation next week, with my mother. and were going to stay in our family house, where my father, his mistress and his mistress's daughter is staying.
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maean_19
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
What? You mean, your father's mistress and her daughter lives in our family house? What kind of set up is that? Are your parents separated? I am confused here. Perhaps, you do not need to get rid of her. If your dad chose to be with his mistress than your mother, perhaps that is something to be dealt by your parents. If your parents chose to separate for reasons, I guess you need not to be bitter because maybe that is the best for everyone. I do not know much about your family status now, but I just hope your parents decide what is the best for you and not for their own benefit. As to your dilemma on how to get rid your father's mistress? Deal with her like an adult. I know it is hart and hurting that your vacation may be ruined by seeing them around, but I think on that situation, why would your father allowed that to happen? I mean, you and your mother with your father's mistress and her daughter? I am really confused. If you cannot deal with them, why not tell that to your dad? Of course, it is really unfair for you.
Budettesky
@Budettesky (95)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
my dad wont listen.... he just listen to himself. and he dont get to meet his grandsons yet. so i wanna give it a shot for my sons and their grandfather to get to know each other, in fact its my dad's invitation. i just hate to see the mistress and her daughter in that house, it kinda insult my mum though they were seperated already for its a family house... my dad does not include my mum in that invitation, but with respect, we cant leave mum alone, while were gone enjoying. and also my dad's financing that mistress daughter in her education, whle he abandoned my younger siblings. thats why thats mistress is not appealing to me. i just hope my mum and dad would act appropriately now with their age.... ..
shia88
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 10
Hi, it seem you don't have a good relationship with your dad's mistress. I am just wondering why you guys have to stay at your father's house since you are on vacation. it is more comfortable to stay in hostel or hotel,at least have more freedom and you no need to see your dad's mistress and her daughter.
Budettesky
@Budettesky (95)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
hello! my mom and dad seperated decade ago,so me and my siblings stayed with our grandparents because my dad works overseas, and he doesnt want us to be with mom beacause he's blaming her for some reasons. when he retired from work, we lived together, but every vacation we choose to stay with our mom. but 5 years ago we parted fr our dad, and we lived with our mum. in that 5 years he met that mistress and without our knowing they live together in our house with that mistress's daughter. now my father misses us! he wants us to stay in our house for vacation, so he can also get to know his grand children, and he keep saying why not stay in that house with him for the fact that thats also our house. but we cant leave mom alone so we decided to bring her on this planed vacation. me and the mistress is not in good term... and so with my mum and dad.... its giving me headache..... so complicated!!!!
maean_19
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
What? You mean, your father's mistress and her daughter lives in our family house? What kind of set up is that? Are your parents separated? I am confused here. Perhaps, you do not need to get rid of her. If your dad chose to be with his mistress than your mother, perhaps that is something to be dealt by your parents. If your parents chose to separate for reasons, I guess you need not to be bitter because maybe that is the best for everyone. I do not know much about your family status now, but I just hope your parents decide what is the best for you and not for their own benefit. As to your dilemma on how to get rid your father's mistress? Deal with her like an adult. I know it is hart and hurting that your vacation may be ruined by seeing them around, but I think on that situation, why would your father allowed that to happen? I mean, you and your mother with your father's mistress and her daughter? I am really confused. If you cannot deal with them, why not tell that to your dad? Of course, it is really unfair for you.
se7enthbird
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
how long is the relationship of your father and her mistress? why not talk to your father that in respect that you and your mother will be using the "family house" please tell them to vacant it. for the mean time while you are there. you and your mother has the right with that house so will little respect give you time with the house without them during your vacation. welcome to the wonderful world of mylot. goodluck.
beauako
@beauako (9)
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22 Oct 10
i think if your mum and dad are still married or legally married, you and your mom has the right to stay in your family house, if your father dont mind between you (the legitimate) and his mistress staying in 1 roof, then i think dont mind them also. just ignore, and pretend that the mistress and her daughter doesnt exist. just be cool, relax and enjoy the vacation, no matter what you hear and no matter what you saw..