I hate my friend.... stolen my money!!!

I am one that when trust is broken it is broken for good. Sorry to be this way my friend but I have been hurt one too many times. So if ever I say well we can try and work things out, I sort of distance myself and friendship will never be the same as there is no true friendship without trust. Have him bring you your money that is quite alright but inform your friend you need time to digest the matter and then make your decision later, but never ever trust again.

why not give him a second chance? But this time be always on guard and don't trust him much when it comes to money matters!

To me this person was never a friend in the first place so there is no asking if you should forgive and be friends again. If the person was your friend they would never have stolen from you in the first place. If he needed help with money then he should have spoken to you about it and asked for your help. If you forgive this person, that's one thing, but if you go back to being friends, that's another thing. How would you ever trust him again? How would you not be always thinking that he could be stealing from you still and you just don't know because you haven't caught him yet? How do you know he hasn't stole from you before but you just didn't catch him? There could never be trust again and so without trust you could never really be friends so why bother even trying. It would be too stressfull and that wouldn't make a friendship. Cheers my friend and happy mylotting, Chris

To be honest with you i would not entertain a person that steals off other people,as in my eyes once a theif always a theif.If they have stolen from you once they will steal from you again.Your friendship will never be the same,as the trust would be all gone,so you may want to forgive,but you will never forget.

He should return the money even if you do not agree to be friends again. The fact that he seems to what you to be friends again, before he returns the money, seems wrong to me. I think if he returned the money first, then maybe I'd be able to give him another chance. But he seems to only want to return the money, IF you are friends again. That's not logical. Thief "If I give back YOUR money TO YOU, then you SHOULD BE my friend again.."?? What? No no... IF you were my friend, you would not have stolen my money to start with. There is a problem with this persons character. I would move on, and leave him be. There is no friendship without trust, and he lost his trust. It's gone. Game over.

I am sorry to hear this information about you.This kind of friend is not value to consider as your friend.You believe him,but he stoled your money.It is too laughing about his action.So be careful about your feiend.Good luck to you.

HELLO. You may forgive him and get your money back. You must not trust him anymore until for he has really changed. this will take a while - say 6 months?

Your friend, he has no right to take your money without informing you at all, it is considering as stealing of act. The friend like this is so dishonest kind. He might be used to steal more from you some day. Unless he promise in front of Church that he will change his bad behaviour.

Well you see, he said he's bringing you back the money. So just forgive him and give him a second chance to come over, but before that, make sure you have kept the rest of your money somewhere really safe in case is he's coming back to steal some more If he really gives you back the money then yes that is very good of him, give him a second chance but still always be careful. Make sure he's being a really good friend this time and know the boundary too. Good luck and have a nice day!

Give your friend a chance, also you'll give a chance for yourself. You should listen to your friend's explaining to keep the friendship.

so sorry for this. but you should not hate anyone when you miss something friend. why your friend stole your mony ? every coin has two side. you should not only give your friend so much bad press. and we should be carefull enough to protect ourselves. and should be careful to know more friends. friend in need is a indeed friend. so just pay more attention to ourselves . not others. good luck.

it needs courage to apologized for what he did. why didn't give him another chance? if i was you, i will forgive my friend ,and make friends with him again. i think maybe everybody needs another chance in the life.

hello.,i understand your sitaution, sometimes in our life we may encounter in many different kind of people, but since he is now your friend and you are very close to him just give him another chance,just forgive and forget.

If you two were really friends and he needs the money that bad. He should have ask you properly and not stole it. It just proves that he can't be trusted and if wants to be friends again then he has to do something to earn your trust back.

That is harsh, but I cannot blame you if you lost your trust. Stealing is not good and worse, the thief was your friend. It is up to you if you give him a chance since he said sorry for what he did. But once he do it again, I think you should avoid him.

Although I admire his courage for actually not denying the crime but rather asking for forgiveness, I think that you should think about this a lot. I am a very forgiving person, and if this would have happened to me, I think I'd accept his apology and give him another chance but I also should consider the fact that he was able to do such a thing to me, his friend and therefore I will be more vigilant and have less trust on money matters as well as every other things with this kind of friend. I hope that you get to settle this problem and whatever the outcome would be, I hope in turns out to be in your favor. Good luck!

mmh it sounds strange..in my opinion you should not forgive him/her if he/she stole your money he/she wuld be a real friend so i think that the next occasion he/she will cheat another time if you forgive him/her..

Nothing wrong with you forgive your friend. You give a second chance to your friend. Hopefully your friend, really regretted it.