how is your love life?^^ please share^^

sweet kiss^^ - boy and girl going to kiss^^
Portugal
October 22, 2010 7:05am CST
hi guys^^ just want to know how is your love life?^^ is always me sharing everything and you guy's advise me so now i would like to be me also listening to yours^^ and help if i can also^^ i wish that all is fine with your love life but if isnt you can talk about that here^^ i will listen and try to advise^^ if you want to share sure^^ thanks so much for all your help^^ aw i want also tell something for you guys^^ PS: when i joined mylot in rules they say that for us to get paid at least one cent per comment we need to in each comment write 3 or 4 lines but i always write 5. so at least there is no mistake and about only 3 lines im not sure if we get paid or not. so maybe better you write 4 or 5 in minimum to always get paid^^ just wanted you guys know this^^ i want everyone to win some money here^^ anyway about the topic^^ please share your sweety love stories^^
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@fey008 (295)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 10
Perfect... i have 2 kids and 1 very honest wife.. PS. Weww... i don't know about that... may be i need going visit this site tos.
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
aw really?^^ thats great that you have 2 kids and a good wife^^ so i see that you really have a perfect life^^ about my ps when i joined mylot i saw that we cant write only a few lines or we dont get paid. thats true. when i registered was there written. i wrote that in ps only to help people bcs i saw already some people saying they commented so much and didnt receive much money that day. i just wanted to help thats all.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 10
Hi sweetie, I'm sure you pretty much know about my love life, don't you? Hehe. It's going all alright still, getting busier with the wedding preparation and of course looking forward for that day to come. How about yours nowadays? Any improvement? I hope you are doing fine with your love life too and no one is hurting you too much again. It is a bit sad because I really want to see my fiance but because we are so busy with our work it isn't possible at the moment. I'm really sad that I could only send him my normal ring so he could bring it to the shop to get a ring for me He's busy designing our invitation cards with his mum at the moment and I will be helping them through Skype only Good luck and have a nice day!
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
hi sweetie^^ im very happy that you will marry soon im happy that you and your bf are both preparing the wedding^^ in some couples is always the girl doing everything and i dont like that^^ the marriage is for both people so both should worry with it^^ im happy that your bf is sweet to you^^ sorry that you can only help them through skype that sucks really. anyway what is your job? and his job?^^ sorry that you have to be far bcs have different jobs. is cute that he went to buy a ring to give you ahah^^ he is sweet really ahah about my bf now everyday he is messaging me through chikka^^ he has to pay but he says is only a little sacrifice for talk with me ahah^^ so im very happy with him now^^ only problem is that he cant work for now bcs needs to help his mother but is ok^^ im working here in mylot and will save to go see him soon^^ i wish i could also teach english online ^^ would be great really^^ but i dont know how :( bcs my mum doesnt want i teach at home so i wanted to teach online at least. just need to find people that need a tutor ahah^^ anyway if cant find i will continue trying to work hard to see him soon^^
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
third party  - having some one else besides the one they have
Hello sweetie, I have Not exactly have a love life now because I don't think that I am entirely prepared mentally and emotionally for it. as much as i wanted but i don't want to face terrible consequences in life. it's hard to deal with relationships settling with problems and differences between each other. execpt for that one time, but the other part is hard..one of them is argument. It's not easy to being just another or a second choice.
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
im sorry for it but is ok^^ soon you will find a good girl that will love you for who you are^^ just cheer up^^ and about being a third party im sorry too. many people are in those situations not knowing if the person will be with them or if will leave them soon. but you shouldnt accept to be in that situation again^^ like you saw was you that got hurt in the end. wish you find a good girl that really loves you and you love too^^
22 Oct 10
my life right now?...I will describe it as..full of problems.
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
sorry for it my life also has many problems like money problem^^ that is the biggest one for now. anyway also my bf is far away from me. i wanted to find a way to be near him soon but is being complicated really. my only job right now is only here in mylot so isnt that easy i needed to find other thing too^^ anyway if you have problems you can tell me about it^^ if need to talk just message me^^
• Portugal
26 Nov 10
ohh sorry for that but do you have a job right now? bcs if not just tell me bcs i can tell you about other site where im working that pays me^^ that way maybe it can help you too and your money problems start to decrease a bit. i understand your prof and i thought the same always but for my ex he never had time so thats why i broke up.
28 Oct 10
we have the same problem..money! and that is a priority 1.haha Oh, that is a long distance relationship, it sure must be hard for you. What my prof said because she's in a long distance relationship too, is that communication is the most important in a relationship they make sure to talk to each other everday as in everyday even if it cost my prof to sleep late. so just make sure you two talk!^_^
• United States
22 Oct 10
My love life at the moment is not at it's best. Me and my ex had broken up about 3 weeks ago, and we hate each other. For one, she hates me because I didn't show that I wanted her back after i was crying for her. But, her reason for breaking up with me was very understandable, and I was trying to support her decision. Her family was having problems with me because I was being too controlling, and i've learned from my mistake and will try to be less controlling in my next relationship. But the real reason was that after she had decided that she wanted to convert to my religion (Latter-Day Saints [Mormon[), her parents got really mad. They're really stereotypical about my religion. They told her that if she was to marry me, they would shun her from all family activities. So it was a good reason to separate with her. But, because I'm supporting her reason, she gets mad at me because I didn't fight back for her after I was fighting for around 20 minutes... but after that I just accepted it. I moved on. The reason I hate her is because she's a backstabber. She made promises that she said she would keep even after we broke up, but instead, she turns her back on me and starts breaking those promises... ugh.
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
im sorry for what happened to you but she changed her religion for you is bcs she really loved you. so maybe she got angry bcs you accepted the break up so easily. maybe she wanted that you fight for her more. about promises that she broke. she is very angry with you and if you and her are not together anymore maybe she broke those promises bcs dont want to remember you anymore. bcs you hurt her. so if you still love her you should talk with her. and ask her if she loves you. if you love her and she loves you too you should fight for her^^ dont easily give up of her^^
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
she should fight for you also. she shouldnt care for what her family says and care for you the most^^ you are her love so she should choose you^^ if she changed her religion for you why cant she be with you now? and if her family doesnt understand that she loves you they dont care enough about her. anyway if she doesnt do nothing to be with you is bcs doesnt care so much :( maybe you should talk with her for the last time. and see what she says. so you can let go or be with her again^^
• United States
24 Oct 10
It's that I did. I showed the most I could care for someone with her, and I really did want to stay with her, but I'm not going to interfere with her family problems. (especially if they're caused by me). I think its just best to let her live her life the way she wants.
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@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
26 Nov 10
You already know how it is :P Its not bad its just none at all :P Well does not matter how is yours ? :D I need someone to hug me :( (why i did not type her until now ? :P )
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• Portugal
26 Nov 10
ahah yes i know how it is ahah none ahah but what about your imaginary gf? you broke up? ahah anyway mine is zero too ahah so we are in the same boat^^ you need someone to hug you? why? are you so sad? sorry for it ahah anyway if you want i can hug you but a fast hug huh? and dont even try to touch my butt huh? ahahah
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
26 Nov 10
How can i hug without touch :P No simple hug will do :D Well i'm a hug addict i love it , i get HIGH when i hug someone :D And i did not have a nice hug or hug at all in a while ;P
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• Portugal
26 Nov 10
ahah i was just joking^^ yes sure a simple hug^^ sorry that you couldnt hug someone in awhile^^ if we lived near each other we could be good friends and would be ok to hug me^^ im also a caring person and i like to hug and kiss ahah ^^ i love to be spoiled but the person that usually spoils me much in hugs is my friend^^ my family is not so huggable ahah^^
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
23 Oct 10
GREAT! I am having a good time because we each have our own space. When we are together, we just enjoy being together and nothing else matters.
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
thats great that both have your own space^^ and that when you are together spend a happy time^^ is very important that both respect each other^^ thats all that matters in a relationship^^ that way it can last^^ being controlling can destroy a relation so is awesome that you and your gf spend time together but have time for your own things also^^
@cortney09 (1345)
• United States
23 Oct 10
My love life is great. I have a wonderful husband. We decided not to have any kids, but have a dog instead. We met on a internet dating site 9 years ago and have been together ever since. We have been married for seven years.
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
im very happy for you^^ is great that your hubby is great to you^^ and is ok to dont have kids ahah that way can have more time only for each other^^ and sure a dog is a good idea^^ pets are great^^ and is cute that you met online^^ and that you are married since 7 years already^^ i also met my bf online since a year more or less but we couldnt meet yet we live very far and none of us have enough money for now. anyway i wish that all goes happy for us^^ like went for you and your hubby^^
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
Hi sweetlove, as for my lovelife, it's in good shape. my partner and i have been together for 5 years and 7 months. we have been living in one roof for 5 years. i love my partner so much... she is my life. she makes me happy whenever am feeling down and lonely... she takes care of me... when i was confined in the hospital, she didn't go to work just to make sure am alright... i will love her till my very last breath, that's a promise!
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
im very happy that you and your gf really love each other ^^ and that she didnt go to work when you were sick^^ thats too sweet and shows that she really loves you^^ that way you didnt feel lonely in hospital anymore ahah^^ im very happy that you will love her till your last breath^^ thats very romantic^^ wish you the best for you and for her^^
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
Hello! Unfortunately, I have no lovelife, no suitor (great sigh!). Right now I never ask any boyfriend or partner from Lord anymore, it depends on Him if He will still give me one..hahaha. I am already tired of asking, I kept asking for the past one decade without any result.
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• Portugal
26 Nov 10
dont think negative^^ im sure that you will find a sweet guy soon^^ just sometimes it takes time to find^^ me i like a guy but he live away from me and i feel that he isnt fighting for us to be together anymore. anyway is all ok he should see what he wants or not. anyway im sure that you will find a great guy that will love you much when you less expect^^
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
I have no love life as of the moment and I try to find someone whom to love me as I am...
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
you right, my friend. It takes time to find someone to love us for what we are and who we are in this life. I want someone in other countries. I want to find out if European girls are far better lovable than Asian girls...
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• Portugal
24 Oct 10
im sure you can find a girl that loves you for who you are^^ love is that^^ love someone for who he is^^ im sure you will find the right girl but sometimes it takes time^^ just wait and be patient^^ maybe you will find her when you less expect^^ maybe in your job or in the street while you hang out with friends^^ we can meet it anywhere^^
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 10
my life and love is okey and fine , for some of love i just forgive it and always want to say sorry if i get wrong and she like that too .. only that and mostly is trusted between me and her , what if some lover not trusted they macth for it and slowly for go to married and get some child and more for trusted and say sorry and give forgivness to our macth every time she or he make mistake and if they cheat give it to apology and no way to be together again .. divorce
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
im happy that all is fine and happy with you^^ and sure is important that you and your gf forgive each other^^ and trust also^^ and sure if you marry someone you will trust and love more sure^^ the love will grow more^^ and sure we must always say sorry if we make a mistake^^ and sure if they cheat the best is to get divorced sure^^ you are right^^
23 Oct 10
hi sweetlove :) i have no love life now :( wish i have to share to you :)
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
thanks so muchy ^^ you are very sweet really^^ thanks for want to share it with me^^ anyway if you dont have is ok^^ im sure that you will find someone sweet soon^^ you are a sweet person for what i saw in your comment^^ so im sure that someone will love you much^^ anyway thanks for your sweet answer^^ im very happy you answered my discussion^^ feel free to always answer all my discussions^^ and welcome to mylot^^
@jhuvz27 (21)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
hello love, i and my boyfriend now is on the rock. i don't know if he still love me, because i think he is cold with me this past few days. but he tells me that he loves me forever and a day. i don't know if i should trust of what he've told me. i love the ways he lie. i love him still even though he doesn't love me that much. i don't know what to do if ever he wanted some space. i don't like that. please help me sweet love
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
sure i will help you sweetie^^ so you and him are not too ok now right? so dont be afraid. you say that he tells you that he loves you right? if he said that is bcs he does^^ trust him for now. but does he call you? does he meet you often? is him that calls you first? what i can tell you now is dont say nothing to him. let him say something to you first^^ wait that he says something. if he doesnt say something for one entire day dont worry dont say nothing too. wait for the second day. if in second day he doesnt say nothing, talk with him and ask him what is happening. but let him take the first step^^ he needs to show his interest to you and not you always. my bf now is caring too much for me and i guess is bcs he almost lost me. bcs we argued other day he even thought i was cheating him. and now he cares much for me^^ everyday message me and show he loves me first than me^^ so now do the same. wait your bf to tell you something first^^
• United States
22 Oct 10
Well unfortunately for the past 5 years i have had no love life. My wife and I dont even sleep in the same room. My Mother-in-law moved in so she took our room so now my wife is in with my daughter and I am in with my son. We really never have any time alone and I dont think she wants to be with me alone. I cant even get her to kiss me anymore. I am not sure what the problem is but it is very upsetting to me. I dont think that she is cheating on me because there is no time for that because we have 3 kids at home. I hope things get better before I will have to make the hard choice and possibly leave her.
• Portugal
23 Oct 10
5 years is too long for you and her to dont have nothing together. you and her are living in the same house only thats all. that doesnt make any sense. thats not even a relationship. you need to talk with her and ask her why in the past 5 years she started to get away from you. you need to be honest with her and tell her that this situation is making you very sad and that both deserve to be happy together. thats why you married. if she continues not caring to be with you you really should get divorced. you deserve to find a woman that loves you really and not live with one that doesnt even kiss you or hug you. talk with her and see what she says. but dont be in a marriage like this please
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
22 Oct 10
My love life is very complicated because I loved a girl truly but she never agrees that I love her. And always ignored me and when I proposed her than she rejected my proposal and say to me don’t talk to her again. So I feel much hurtled. And now one year has been passed to this incident. But I never forget her and now she is very far to me. And in this one year I have never talked to her because when I go to call her then this incidents suddenly comes in my mind that she has hurtled me a lot so I stop to call her. I don’t want to give pain her because I know if I try to talk her then she feel some tension and I don’t want to give her any tension. Because I love her truly. And if she also loved me then she could call me in this one year.
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
im sorry that she rejected you i told you to stop being after her didnt i? you shouldnt think about her. she didnt love you. she even got angry when you proposed her. thats too stupid of her. she could have say no but at least say sorry to you instead of being angry. dont call her, delete her number and forget her^^ you deserve a better girl that can love you ^^
• United States
22 Oct 10
for now i can't say i really have one, there is just to much in my life at the moment and the one person i want is way to far away for us to have a love life together.
• Portugal
23 Oct 10
yes sorry. i know that you and your best friend are far away and isnt possible to have a relationship for now. anyway wait for her. you said she would go see you next year right?^^ so is soon^^ just wait for her. call her, send her messages^^ for now that can help^^ my bf is also very far and we talk everyday^^ always message each other^^ that way seems we are near^^
• Portugal
26 Nov 10
you are trying you mean but she doesnt talk with you since 4 monthes and you are still taking that as a normal thing. i dont know how you can be so long time without know about her and dont try to call her. i mean isnt normal 4 monthes without contact you if she was in love with you. unless something happened to her. you should try to send her an email or something.
• United States
27 Oct 10
can't do much of that right now cause of our life but we are trying
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
Hi, Very ok! I am not yet married but my boyfriend and I are planning to get married soon maybe this december,God's will..We have a 2 year old cute daughter and she bonds.She brought love and happiness to the family..I am very happy and contented with my love life. So happy:-)
• Portugal
23 Oct 10
cherry^^ you will marry with your bf soon?^^ thats great im too happy for you^^ you have a cute 2 year old daughter? so cute i really love babies im sure that she brought love and happiness^^ and thats great that you and your bf are so happy together^^ you are a sweet person and just deserve a happy love life^^ the best for you and for him^^
• Portugal
26 Nov 10
i saw now that you will marry maybe december^^ well that will be very soon ahah im so happy for you^^ you still will marry that month right or did you change your mind? i wish that you didnt change your mind and that you marry soon really^^ you and your hubby deserve to be happy^^ besides you already have a sweet baby girl that complements your relation^^
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
Hi, Thanks for that..Yes,Iam looking forward on the big day..We are so blessed we have a cute baby girl,she is our joy and we will do everything for her. Thanks again,I will tell when that day happens. Good luck to your lovelife too..God Bles:-)
@vangie26 (445)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
Love life is sometimes so complicated when handled wrong but definitely so heaven when you treat it as a treasure. It should involve so many kinds of feelings just to get a very colorful lovelife. There should be respect, first and foremost. Of course, faithfulness counts, and true love. What is it? Of course, True Love that is in a relationship that is God-centered and with open communication both with open mind. In short, lovelife is happy when there is respect, faithfulness and true love...and I guess.. i have it! hehe :-)
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
yes you talked very sweet about love^^ thats true that true love needs love a true one and also faithfulness^^ and trust^^ and sure love makes our life better and sure communication is very important also^^ say always how we feel and what we think is very important really. im very happy that you have a happy relationship with your lover^^
• Thailand
22 Oct 10
hi, my boyfriend is working as a programmer. he gotta work hard everyday well, i don't remember when was the last time we met. :'( so bad..) anyway, he's cute, realible and never hung out with another girl. :)
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• Portugal
23 Oct 10
sorry that he has to work hard everyday :( you dont work also? anyway sorry that you dont meet him since awhile already. but he has a day off right? in his day off you could meet for dinner or lunch^^ or cinema or other cute date^^ im happy that he is cute and reliable and also faithful to you^^ he is a sweet guy^^ i see that he is only busy with his work^^ but why dont you call him?^^ im sure he misses you^^