Have you ever thought that finding a girlfriend or boyfriend in mylot?
By koAebryant
@koAebryant (358)
China
October 22, 2010 8:50am CST
Imaging that finding a girlfriend or boyfriend is in mylot,is it reality for everyone?Have you ever think about it?
In my opinion,I am very glad to fall in love with a girl in here.For in here we have a lot of communications each other,and we all do not meet each other.The impression between us is only based on communications.And we become lover all over the world.Above all,we can look the real love and the right boy or girl.However,if we love each other,the reality do not permit us to live together.Personally speaking,I do not think it is a problem at least for me.True love is not great conditions,no one shall stop us.We can solve the all reality problem if we are really in love.
Does everyone agree with me?Talk about your idea and communicate each other.
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28 responses
@shaggin (72021)
• United States
22 Oct 10
No I would not have a realtionship with someone that I met on mylot. I am not really on here looking for friendship I am just here to discuss things and earn points. I dont really ever talk to poeple who live outside my area. I dont feel safe talking to strangers. I certainly dont want a long distance relationship. Now if there was someone I knew in person who happened to be on mylot as well that would be cool because I could really all the things they write and get to know them really well that way.
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@Krizz420canada (531)
• Canada
22 Oct 10
I'm with you to. I have to admit though I met my girlfriend of 6 years now, back on a internet dating site. I didn't even had a clue what she looked like until the day I met her. I was lucky because she was cute and a very down to earth person not like those horror stories you hear about online dating. If I had a chance to do it all over again knowing what I do now, I would say no,no,no because its way to dangerous nowadays for that.
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@shaggin (72021)
• United States
22 Oct 10
aww thats an awesome story Krizz420canada! Did she live locally so when you saw you lived somewhat close by you decided to meet or did she live many hours away even a country away when you decided to meet? If it was like say an hour from me the person lived I might go for it but if they lived very far to me it serves no point I would never bother to meet them then.
@koAebryant (358)
• China
23 Oct 10
Maybe we do not fall in love each other,hahaha.Everyone has their own attitude toward the question.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Oct 10
It has never and will not be my intention to seek love of the opposite here on myLot, as I do not see it as a dating site.
I enjoy it being a discussion forum with it's astringent rules as it maintains it's sustainability.
Is it possible ?? I suppose as members bond on here just like they would any other online site, especially the loyal ones who are on here daily. Everyone deserves to be loved and to love, so if you have the inclining that maybe someday this may happen to you, best of luck..
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
22 Oct 10
Nope, i'm not looking for one. Been there done that, didn't work out & it sure wasn't worth the heartache he caused. Good luck to anyone that is.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
22 Oct 10
No I never though about this because I always think that mylot is a good platform for us for online earnings and also we can learn many things here and also we can find solution for our problems. And if we have any problems then we can post our problems through our discussion and also we can get solution very soon. So I never thought about to search any girlfriend on this site because I have no time for this.
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@ldloverose (64)
• Vietnam
23 Oct 10
Well, u have no time for searching your girlfriend but u can post & make discussions ;). Just think about this simple thing: What's more important to u, your girlfriends or your discussions? ))
@harry89 (2330)
• India
22 Oct 10
Well, i do not mind falling in love here on mylot. I shall be glad to find a partner here. As mylot is my one of favourite sites and i spend a lot of time here. But if i talk about reality then it would be difficul to take that relationship towards more if she lives far away from me, but if she lives in same country as me then that would be great.
Harry, :-)
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
I'm happy that you've found a girl here. It's just too bad that it's kind of a cyber thing and not the real physical thing. I hope you'll get meet her in person someday and you can work your relationship out.
If I were not married, I'm not closing any possibility that I might get into the same situation with you. Who knows right? I couldn't surely say that I'll never fall in love with someone here because I think most of the people here shows their real personality since we're all giving our personal opinions on something. But this doesn't apply to me anymore since I'm already married.
So good luck to you!
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@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
22 Oct 10
No way. I have a boyfriend and I met him in person. I would never date someone that I met online because you don't know who they really are. They could be lying to you behind that screen.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
23 Oct 10
You never know. Sometimes the people you meet online are not always who they appear to be.
@koAebryant (358)
• China
23 Oct 10
It is just the special case.I believe that she will not cheat me.
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
23 Oct 10
It never crossed my mind at all. Perhaps I am too conservative. I do think that having online friends as one's personal companion, girlfriend or boyfriend has many other complications that need to be resolved - culture, belief, family members, time zone etc. Distant relationships are difficult to work on when both are worlds and hours apart.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 10
Love finds no boundary. Falling in love with someone in mylot is not impossible. It happened and it will happen again to anybody here. The cupid arrow can strike at any time without you realizing it. Words alone can pierce deep inside the hearts of hearts. It can be very romantic and beautiful to exchange loving words to one that has mesmerized you and found a soft spot in her/him.
@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Oct 10
I have been on Mylot for three years and I have met some very interesting people. Mostly females. The men I have met were not ones I would be attracted to or in any way wanting to date. I think of them more as friends not partners. It is always nice to have alot of friends and know that they agree and see things the way I do.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
23 Oct 10
that would be perfect to meet someone enough like you either in here or on another site you spend a lot of time on. that way you can be sure if they are going to work out even before you meet
i met a guy in pogo club a while back. it seemed pretty good till i discovered he does this and talks/types with a lot of others about being in love etc. so i figure if he does it online, he does it in real. so no it didnt work out. but im open to another try
im old so its a lot harder then with you young folks. 
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Finding love in here is not being my option but to have some. It is good if I find someone love here. Because I am still looking for someone who good as those girls which experience trouble in their love life here.
I read many post about love and relationship. Girls and guys storied about breakup and trouble. If I may I can help those girls out of trouble and I do love them better than their past love affairs...
@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
23 Oct 10
I've not thinked about it really, and wasn't the reason I came here. But it can be nice thought. After all, I post something, and a few replies I add a girl as a friend and maybe we can start talking, become good friends and even know each other!!
That's possible, even when we don't seek it. However, for me it's quite difficult, there aren't too many people from my coutry here :(
On other forums, I've know people and formed a very good friendship, even to the point to have a girlfriend from a web site. Si it's possible, and very nice too.
I think, MyLot, or any forum or site for instance, is only a medium to know people, nothing more. Once we get out of internet and know personally, it's all the same as a normal relationship.
@funkyguy009 (138)
• India
23 Oct 10
I wish you all the best for your love life.
Personally i would prefer loving a girl whom i have met face to face and interacted with her. I am not comfortable with online relationship. It can be that we chat online and meet afterwards, as is the case with my present girlfriend.
And yes I agree with your point that problems can be solved by true love. Nothing above love.
God bless
@lionheartguru (208)
• India
23 Oct 10
Yes I have made my ready to rise (not fall) in love on MyLot . However, i am unsure if i would be able to find my Dream girl(s) on MyLot . It might might be possible as well , but i am just unsure . I would like to make friends and then gradually graduate to be a lover ! As it is internet is the best place to make friends (girlfriends)since you happen to discuss a lot and share your views/thoughts/feelings without any hesitation ,compared to the face-to-face scenario. Hence i am all set to make friends and find any suitable girl for me .
@lilsept (4)
• Nigeria
23 Oct 10
I didn't come over to this place to find a girlfriend and i did come to make money from the site and that's all i have to do here but if i find someone to make that worth it i might get to know her and make money with her.
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@titachut (21)
•
23 Oct 10
hmm..it is possible to have an online relationships, but absolutely it doesnt work. Some online users find time to entertain flirty feelings and try to look for a partner that will do the same thing. This is not so bad actually but for me this is not a good foundation of relationships. But some people do have happy ending through onlines. But in "Mylot?" that is another story we have to catch! If this site would let lovers meet their soulmates, then this would be an instrument!
