what do u think is essential for a happy marriage?
By buddhis
@buddhis (58)
China
October 22, 2010 9:59am CST
love is essential to human survival. people fall in love with each other,and they will marry. and then, they live together,and there will be something needed to sustain their marriage.
various elements are necessary for a marriage.some people think loyalty and respect are much more important than others to our marriage.some may focus on money in the choices of their marriage.after all,money could provide you with bread and something you want.also you friends maight tell you that communication and caring are all you need in your marriage.since so many elements are involved in marriage,what is essential to marriage?and what's your opinion marriage?
4 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
to marry a guy we shouldnt care for money. what matters is find someone that loves us, respect us, care for us, be there for us, listens to us, gives us attention^^ and is faithful too^^ and have a good conversation also^^ and be honest always^^ thats what is essential^^ just love and care matters to marry^^ we shouldnt be with someone without love^^
@buddhis (58)
• China
24 Oct 10
hi,sweetloveforever ,thanks for your comment.of course,love is essential for human survival.the marriage will end up with divorce finally without love and emotional support.you will do anything for her/him if you really love someone.you will wonder evrything related to her/him.and always be there up for her.sometimes it will be romantic. love is the soul of a marriage.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
23 Oct 10
Well, according to me understanding is the most important thing for a successful marriage. If you both understand each other well then you can spend a beautiful life together. The other thing is respect , you should respect each other and support each other on every phase of life. You can really live a great life if you have these two things between you and your partner.
Regards,
harry, :-)
@buddhis (58)
• China
23 Oct 10
that's right.understanding and respect are vital elements to a marriage. someone maight have privilege in some family because they own more. their words would be more important than others when make a decision all together.so it's important for us to consult others' tips.that also means we respect each other.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Oct 10
hi second time my whole response was wiped out,.buddhis you must have love, communication and most of all respect and trust in each other, ' and you must be faithful to each other,no game playing, no cheating
and again love but it needs all of the other things I mentioned to
have a real marriage that will last as long as ye both shall live.
@buddhis (58)
• China
23 Oct 10
weii,thanks for you response.what you said are absolutely right.we should be faithful to each other.and i think each one have some secrets.maybe there still be something you don't want to share with others including your partner.we always need some space for ourselves.all you need to do is to trust each other.
@buddhis (58)
• China
23 Oct 10
yes,it's warm that there is always someone back up you when you make a decision.she/he care about you and give you some tips.of course,when you really love someone,you would be willing to accept the person's faults and shoutcomings.someimes we may make mistakes.and we quarrel with each other on some little stuffs.lot of time we should make some sacrification for the lover. maybe one of you is busy with the work and don't have much time with the families.then you should give more caring to him.also your support and understanding will be vital in your good relationships.
