Marriage?
By jramorinD
@jramorinD (85)
Philippines
October 22, 2010 10:44am CST
I love my boyfriend so much, but still not sure if I really want to get married.
Its just because I've known a lot of married couples that were separated because the husband found already a new girl that's younger than his wife and his not contented with his wife anymore. And I don't want to experience that! I don't want to get married then would end up to a divorce or annulment, much better no marriage at all, because your just wasting your time and your money in this so called marriage.
But ofcourse, I would still love to be called a wife. I'm just really scared...
3 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
22 Oct 10
You don't know what will happen unless you try. Nothing is eve guaranteed but nothing is gained if you don't try.
I also don't see how it's a "waste" if it ends up not working down somewhere down the line.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Oct 10
Firstly marriage is not for just anyone, so much is involved, where as we must learn to compromise, accept and be willing to continually work on better and improving the marriage.
I would say that if your fears are this strong than it is best to wait until you feel stronger about it. Do not let others experiences influence your own as no two couples are the same. Good luck.
@wadabski (761)
• Philippines
22 Oct 10
Yes we cannot really deny the facts that these things happen but this things really depends on the personality of a certain person, temptations really do exist everywhere. Than is why love is based on Loyalty and trust.
If you think you will be happy with that guy then go, but get know each other better before going to that level of your relationship.
