if u love someone married and says that will leave his wife/hubby for you...

Hi sweetlove.. For me I wouldn't even try to be involved to a man with responsibility or attachment.. And if he happens to promise me anything about leaving his wife for me I wouldn't believe him.. I have heard such stories like that and almost all I've known were left behind feeling sorry for herself because of believing a man who is married and promises life with her.. Involvement with married man is such a very complicated thing. I can't imagine me being happy with complications..One can be TRULY happy if he/she is in a free relationship. Without extensions, without strings attached to other person. Loving someone means one shouldn't feel the urge of being selfish. If one knows she might hurt others feelings and eventually wreck a home, but still push through that "love" then I think she's not loving. But she is being greedy.. For me, I wouldn't wait for him.. Knowing it's wrong..

I would never have a relationship with married men. It's very complicated. I'd rather find another person to love me without any commitment. I don't like to create trouble with their family. I would probably wait if he is legally separated already.

I would NEVER EVER pursue a married man. I have better morals and respect for myself and others to do something like that. If a man cheats with you HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU. What would make a woman believe she would be better than his wife whom he has been with for a while?

I think it’s bad to say someone that he/she leave her/his wife/husband for you. Because I think what is the mistakes of a person’s partner whom you want that he/she left their partner for you. I think when you also know the other person is married then why you try to started love relationship. I think love never been get by forced. It always feels by heart.

It depends on the person, but I would not start a relationship until the person had left their wife. I would not want to be the reason a marriage breaks up!

OHH,... ACTUALLY I ENCOUNTER THAT.,.,. BUT FOR ME , THE GOOD WAY IS TO LET THE PERSON YOU LOVE ThaT HAS A FAMILY TO BE IN HIS FAMILY,and let you go far away ,. BECAUSE AS A PILIPINA ,,IN OUR COUNTRY IT BAD FOR US TOO SEE LIVING in your partner that has a family/.,.. and remember he has a family and a children,, THINK THE LIFE OF OTHERS NOT ONLY YOURSELF.,.,

Hi sweetlove! As much as possible, I would not get attached to a person who is married. Because I am sure that even he will be separated from his wife and would come to me, there would still be a time that they will be seeing each other. Which, I do not like. I am the kind of person who gets jealous easily and is possessive at times. But if it would really happen that I am in love with him and he would leave his wife for me, I would rather wait.

It isn't the wisest decision we can make when we get involved with someone who is married. there is usually no future in it for the other person. A married person already has a bond and commitment to someone else. Thinking they will choose you over that person is often a fantasy we hang onto.

hello sweet! i definitely don't like being attached to men who are attached to others. it's really not my attitude to wreck a home. well,i can say,i am always being linked to guys who are attached to my girl friends. and i don't really like it. thankfully,i don't find them interesting and i didn't have the guts to fall for them. they just fall for me,but no way can i fall for a guy who is already married or is in a relationship with other girls,specially if that girl is my friend.i really don't like the idea. and if i would be dared to do so,i'll never do that,ever! i don't like guys who are like that. they keep on telling me they would leave their wives just to be with me,NO WAY! i don't like women to be hurt just like that.cause i myself don't want to be in their shoes.

wow . so funny subject this is. and i never heared this kind of things ever before. maybe i am so young here. and know nothing for love. but i think we can do what we want to do if we love someone deeply . so this is real love. just do it for that you like to do . no pains no gaisn . good luck.

I got a suitor who says before that he is separated from his wife. So the courting commence. Later on I found out that he is still very much married so I jilted him. I don't want to be in a relationship with a guy who is a cheat since if he had done that to his wife I know I cannot trust him. If the relationship is based on lies and will hurt a family I'd rather be single than ruin another woman's life.

The moment I loved him knowing that he has a wife, I think I've already crossed the boundary. I don't want getting involve with someone who's already married even if he promise me the moon or the stars. I couldn't live knowing the fact that I contributed to their break up. I know my mind is close regarding this, but this is how I see it and this is my own opinion. I just couldn't try and break a woman's heart because of my own selfishness.

First thing I like a girl who is one man women and if such things happen I wouldn't wait for her because I would have that fear in my heart that in future if she does the same thing what she did to her husband to me then so I wouldn't wait and wouldn't commit in a relationship too....

i will not allow him to do it.. i dont want anyone hurt because of me..what if they have a child??that child would hurt even more..

If I am a woman and a man telling me that words. I don't believe on him and I don't want to enter into a relationship that I know is complicated. If he is separated well that is good but if he still with his wife and promise to leave his wife if follow over him. That is a kind of stupidity

I would move on immediately. I would question how I even let myself get mixed up with a lying cheating lowlife. They were not available to make any type of advances on anyone. Ihey would cheat on the first spouse, there's no reason this person with no principles would not cheat on you. Again I say I would RUN, RUN, RUN and cry at home. A person should respect themself enough to know there are better more moral opportunities out there. I wouldn't even want that person even if and when they did divorce.

hello cat, Uh uh...feels like a princess (hahaha) First,never love a married person or never indulge in any relationship with someone committed. If ever i fall in love unexpectedly with someone who is married i will never disclose that feeling to him. And,if the case is different,that a married guy will fall in love in me and tells me that he is willing to leave his wife (gosh..that's a giggle weiiii) but NO..NO and NO. I would rather wait for the right man,or right time that someone comes my way to love me without complication. I know this is happening,but i don't want to be the reason for a broken home,nor i can't imagine myself wrecking a happy marriage life. Have a great weekend dear

Hi, Cat.:) I hope this thing will not happened to me... It is going to be very difficult but I can honestly say that I will do the right thing, that is leaving him alone and his wife and kids. If ever falling in love with someone who is already married can not be avoided then, get your guts out of there. Do everything to avoid him because it will only create more harm than good if you will continue loving him. He may be wanting to leave his wife for you but what about the kids? Can you carry it with your conscience that because of your selfishness there are kids who are about to live in a broken family? Without you in the picture, that husband and wife can maybe still work things out and separation is not going to be the answer to their issues... No, I can not stand and face my God if I will let myself be the reason why such family totally ruined the relationship... I will not wait for him, but, instead tell him to fix everything with his wife for his children's sake. Besides, he used to love her, he can love her again only if he'd focus on her...

i was in the same boat before, but i didn't have the slightest idea that i am dating a married man until i gave birth to our child. he did not tell me about it, his parents were the ones who talked to the girl to let go of him since they don't have any child. they explained that he now has responsibility with our child. luckily, the girl let go and right now we are on the process of filing an annulment case to make everything legal.

Hi Sweetie, I don't really know how to answer this because I have not yet imagined myself loving someone else husband tough eh? But ok, IF I love a married man, I would not do anything else other than staying farther away from the man. BUT, lets say the man wants to be with me because his wife is cruel or something, maybe his wife is only caring about being popular and such, then still, I don't think I will wait. Surely the man must still have his love for his wife otherwise he won't ever did marry her. So, I'm afraid if I'm only emmm...a place or someone for him to come to and get rid all of his sadness and go back to his wife again. Maybe...I'm quite paranoid with this kind of relationship haha! Have a nice day dear