How often do you fight with your spouse/partner and how do you make up?

I hardly get into a fight with my partner. But normally whenever I have an argument with my girlfriend, we'll both time-out. Settle our thoughts and then talk about it few days later, and try to find out what went wrong and who was in fault. Sometimes I will get her ice-cream or chocolate to ease the tension and make it easier for her to speak her mind. (or make her less pissed) I believe that whenever there's argument, someone just have to be the humble one and be tolerant. Tolerate. That's what I always tell myself.

Like you, we also used to fight in the early years of our marriage. Me and my hubby are both young at that time. I was only 18 when we get married and my hubby was 21. Even if we're fighting we make sure that we fix things out before the end of the day.

My husband and I have had some big disagreements over the years and usually I wait for him to say Sorry. But over the past year we have both been working on learning more about each other and making the relationship a better one. Because of that I sometimes say SORRY before he does. But I always mean it when I say I'm sorry.

We do argue everyday but not that big fight and we make up just by talking about the problem and that's the good thing about our relationship,we don't hide our feelings to each other and shup ut,we talk and I will tell him I hate that and he tells me what he hates then later I know that he hates when I do this or that so It's sort of understanding.We both say sorry to each other after and kiss with hugs and sometimes you know,,in bed.lol.

For me very month we have a fight but it depends the topic but we can settle it for one day.

wow. good subject here. but i don't think we ofter fight with each other. and just one or two days .we will be ok . and just recognise the wrong things we have done to her . then we will be ok for family . so that's the way we do with the trouble .so its not easy to know one in the world so just cherish it . thank you .

I fight with my wife almost every day and it is getting to be old. I think the main reason that we fight is that my mother-in-law is living with us and she thinks that she is another parent and that she can tell the kids what to do and how to do it and when my wife is not here she is always watching them and every little thing that they do wrong or she thinks is wrong she has to tell my wife and then my wife spanks the kids. I dont think she need to be the parent in our house. There is either my wife or I here all the time to watch over the kids so she just needs to but out. I have told my wife of this and my frustions and she just tells me I am wrong and that her mom can do what she wants to the kids when she is not there and has gone as far as saying that my mother-in-law is in charge of the kids when she is not there. She says that they dont have to listen to me at all. We dont kiss and make up at all. If I keep talking about how I feel then she just gets real mad and leaves the room when things are not going her way.

My husband and I have been married for two years now, and we fight a lot. Mostly because I can't stand it when he's drinking, and mostly because I don't like hanging out with him when he's drinking. That is how he spends his idle time, though. Drinking like he's with friends, except he's alone watching tv. Sometimes it irritates me when he's drinking and instead of ignoring him, I pick on him. Since he's had a bit to drink he doesn't back down either and we end up fighting. But once he sobers up, he says sorry and so do I and things go back to normal. It's just a simple sorry. Lately we're not fighting as often. It can be really tiring and we try to avoid it as much as possible.

we seldom fight. whenever we fight we easily make it up. my partner is awesome and is very humble. we usually end up saying sorry and cuddling. we both like being cuddled so it makes us up easily.

My boyfriend and I live together for almost five years and I must be blessed as he is such a sweetie. Sure we have disputes but nothing ever too serious as he is the first to apologize even if it is my fault. He says he never wants us fight so hard that we lose touch of the reason why we are together, so far five years and still he is the same. God blessed me with him as he is really great.

Unfortunately I fight a lot with boys,they are sooo different from girls as if coming from another planet.I used to fight a lot with my ex,we even hit each other.And now the history repeats itself with my recent boyfriend:)

during the early years of our marriage,yes we use to fight.but as your marriage goes deeper you learn ignore other things that starts up a fight. iif he's saying something that i would think it will start a fight , i just leave and do something else that would keep out my mind from it.but on times that i feel i have to say what i feel, i would insist and tell him what is my point.he would sometimes leave the house,when he gets back he would say sorry.most of the time he's the one saying sorry. hehe...when this things happen, we just have to ignore it sometimes. you were right about that.coz everyday is a learning process, we always have to forgive,forgive,forgive and forget.good day.