i'm not confused about my feelings anymore but... :'(
@pessimisticsachi (86)
Philippines
October 23, 2010 6:05am CST
hi there, i'm going to share something that is happening with my life now and it's about someone i love or maybe just like for now..well there is a guy that is a playboy and he told me that he likes me..well i kinda don't believe him cause i hear rumors about him playing with girl's feelings..but i somehow believe him in some way...well it started when he still doesn't know me but i know him ever since i was in 2nd year high school because his sister is my friend and a coincidence happened between us..we we're both part of the performers in a program in our school..while we we're practicing i caught him staring at me with a smile on his face..me and my friends we're chatting when suddenly one of my friend blurted out his name..and told us..look at him..then all of us looked..he was surprised that i looked at him and them he turned his back towards us,then he started messaging me through text..and we started to get along..and he told me that he likes me and that he doesn't want to get rejected by me..so i always talk to him in text but in person i'm just too shy to talk to him but he always approaches me even sometimes it seems like i ignore him but the truth is that i'm happy that he talks to me..because i kinda like him too,he said that it takes all of his courage to talk to me and yet i treat him like that..and now..his best friend started to text me to..and then i sent a group message that has his best friend's name on it..well at first i didn't know that they we're best friends..and then the boy i like text me and asks if his best friend was courting me..i said no but he said that his best friend likes me and is courting me and that i have to choose between them..he told me that he doesn't want their friendship to be torn apart..well even me i don't want that..he said that the decision will be on me..i want to choose him but it bothers me that if i choose someone they're friendship might broke...so i started to think that i won't choose anyone..so that they will still be friends but it hurts me a lot..and another problem occurred it seems like my friend likes the boy that i like too..and it seems like the are texting each other..im jealous..:( waht should i do with this kind of love???
2 responses
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
i could imagine your difficult situation. it is OK to have them both as friends. then, you don't have to make a decision which one you prefer. tell them that you like them both, and that you want to keep the friendship. you do not have to concern yourself with the matter between the boys' friendship. it is up to them. well,as for your friend texting the boy that you like, it is normal to feel jealous, but both of them are your friends. be happy that they are getting along well. best wishes and be happy.
@pessimisticsachi (86)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
they do get along...to the fact that he doesn't text me anymore :(
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
23 Oct 10
you say that a guy that is a playboy and his best friend love you right? so that guy the playboy told you that if you choose him his friendship will break. is not your fault if that happens^^ you have the right to be happy^^ anyway about that playboy is texting your friend thats strange. but if he likes you why is he texting her? doesnt he know she likes him? for sure he knows. you shouldnt decide nothing for now and see what is up with him and your friend. just then you can decide what you want to do^^ you feel that that guy really loves you but if he is texting your friend thats a bit suspect. you should wait a bit more^^ anyway tells us what is happening ok? so we can advise you better^^ 
@pessimisticsachi (86)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
thank you for the advice ^^..well me & that playboy treats each other like we don't know each other anymore (like total strangers) though sometimes i receive text messages from him but only a group message and not especially for me ^_^..he did hit on my other friend too..that's his past classmate and she told me 'bout what was happening between them because i shared my story with her..and it seems like his sweet talk goes for her too..well he sweet talks almost every girl i think..:]but i still have contact with his best friend and actually i like him being my friend but i don't like it that he likes me..he keeps on telling me that he loves me whenever he have the chance but i don't feel anything for him..and i always reply thank you..am i getting his hopes up?if i continue befriending him will it hurt him??should i just stay away?.
