Love and candle....

Hiya shibs, You can also relight the same candle anytime anywhere just thought of that one. It rings true for me anyhow. Hwang Ho River of Sorrow that is the name of this River that has caused so much sorrow. I felt a shiver go through me the first time I heard this name like a memory that was stirred somewhere and this was at School when I was quite small. In spite of that this River is supposed to be the giver of life yet it took so many away. So many other Rivers have done this though all over the World. China´s second biggest River the giver and the taker. River of Sorrow is what I was taught at School so I am only basing myself on that. All Rivers are a must they should be allowed to flow naturally. We have many little disasters here waiting to happen with Rivers that have been diverted. I saw one the other Month okay it benefits a few but not the life itself that is around the River Bed itself. Love needs to be free to flow like the Rivers themselves. I felt very sad to see this River deprived of it´s natural state for the avarice of others. Sorry I am getting diverted myself here lol. A candle can blow out but you can relight it again and again.

Hi Shibham brother.. I have not read that.. and I dont agree with those wordings.. because any relationship stands on the base of Trust.. Love can be static until and unless trust remains the same.. once the trust is lost I dont think that Love can still be static.. what do you think on this?

I think you are reffering to LEO TOLSTOY, dear. :) Well, he might be right when he said this. But he is referring to the Divine love which is unfailing. But for humans like us, I don't think it is always true... Sadly, there are times that we get too weak to sustain our candle to keep burning....

Hiya shibs, I believe it can be so that your love for someone can last and endure for a lifetime and beyond. Have seen married Couples that have been together for years and a few of them still love each other very much. Yes for as long as the candle lasts that love will last and even longer. Take care have a great weekend shibs.

I also think that it's true because first of all, they complement each other. I have my own reasons. But first, i wanna hear your reason.

Hi Shibham, Yes-that's true and every one knows that its true but we are all so hypocritical that people have to point it out. I once read a little Tolstoy, Dostoevsky, Chekhov et al. But now, I just read for my own pleasure!! Coming back to your question-love is an emotion which is brought about by the simultaneous presence/absence of some biological and/or psychological conditions. But those conditions are sometimes not present so the intensity of your love changes. (I have coined the above definition myself). The proof is all around you. See all those marriages beginning in love and ending in divorce or hypocrisy. The truth is that tomorrow I may suddenly dislike some habit of my partner and there need not be any logic in that.About the analogy, I am not too sure. Well, a candle will one day end up finished without any light but you cannot be sure about love in that way for after marriage, living together-love gets diluted by responsibilities etc. So can you call that love? I wouldn't know!

yes shibham thats true^^ i believe in that saying too^^ bcs if you really love someone the love doesnt disappear easily^^ it stays even forever^^ love is a feeling that last^^ like a candle that its light doesnt go off^^ love can be forever if both try to make things work and if both are in love^^ care and trust and share and care for each other always is what makes a love story works^^

no, friend, sorry I do not know, about the story,