Cheating on your wife or girl friend,why?
By tales4wisdom
@tales4wisdom (95)
Malaysia
October 23, 2010 10:17pm CST
Sometime ago i was annoyed seeing a friend of mine who is married cheating on his wife,by dating other women. I asked him why he was cheating on his wife and advised that what he is doing is wrong,he laughed and said when i am married i will know why some men cheat on their wife.
Now that am married like him,i now realize that after you lived together with your wife,at a point there will be a time when your wife is standing naked next to you,and you will not be moved. You will not feel the urge to touch her,ironically when you see other women/ladies you will nurse the ambition to go after them more than your wife at home.
My question is why do you(Men)feel the same way most men do after living together with with their wife or girl friend? what are the reasons that make men feel that way? and for ladies do you feel the same way after living with a man for a long time?
3 responses
@MrPrankster94 (12)
•
24 Oct 10
Well,
this situation is really complicated.
honestly, i also have the same feeling.
maybe because i am boring with my girlfriend and i see another girl more attractive.
but, i figured another way to overcome my problem by spending more time with each other and do great activities.
i often go to the movie with her and sometimes play UNO card game. It's really helps me in strengthen my relationship with my girlfriend.
The most important thing in relationship is by sharing our interest.
It's not that hard if we totally love our partner.
@tales4wisdom (95)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 10
that true, what about if you try to spend time with her and you still have this urge to approach an attractive lady, what next?
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
25 Oct 10
Hi,
When a man or woman lost interest on their life partner,
they sure won't have chemistry or strong feeling for each other,
so be it, how close they are with each other ,they just don't feel
like touching each other or even get intimate.
But I hate getting cheated by people, especially my life partner and
for sure I won't forgive him if I found out that he cheated on me.
I believe that love and trust are important element for a
realtionship to carry on and without those 2 elements,there is no
point to carry on and stay together under one roof.
@akari77 (123)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
Too much time for each other blows the flame down. They're getting used to each other. No more mysteries for them to unfold or adventures to take. But those are for adventurous guys. But there are also guys who loves their wives no matter what. Who are very loyal no matter what. Who thinks their children and wives first before they make their move when they are tempted. Well maybe, it's just how lucky a woman/man with whom are they married. :)
