How often do you visit your parents?
@chaitra001 (3278)
Bangalore, India
October 24, 2010 2:01am CST
Hi friends, many of us stay away from our parents from some or the other reasons.. some will get married and stay away and some for either education or job purpose they need to stay away..
Since I am married I stay away from parents and I miss them a lot.. I visit them once or twice in a week.. Somedays I will inform my husband I need to see my parents and go to visit them direcctly from my workplace so my husband can come and take me home later..
So how about you? Please share.
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11 responses
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 10
Hi sender, Thats really nice you visit them on daily basis.. Thanks for sharing..
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Visiting my parents is one of my desire always because of my work abroad so once a year only visiting them. And besides their place are farway from our home, they are in the province while we are in the city. So every year will planning always vacation there. Then open calling them through mobile phone... that my case
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 10
Hi friend, Thanks for sharing.. its very sad that you could meet them once in a year but good to know you talk on phone with them..
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 10
Hi shibham brother.. Its hard to travel 100 kms daily up and down.. 2 or 3 nights and weekend so i guess you dont miss them much.. Thanks for sharing..
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@vandana7 (100533)
• India
24 Oct 10
It is my father who visits me. :) You see, we both stay in the same house. But he keeps going out for something or the other. Effectively, he visits me 10 times in a day! he he. Kidding. My father and me - we stay in the same house. I lost my mother almost 45 years ago. I think of her everyday, if that qualifies as a visit.
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@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 10
Hi Vandana, I liked your kidding way LOL.. Sorry to know you lost your mother.. Good thing is that you and your father staying in same place.. so you are very lucky that you dont miss him at all.. Thanks for sharing..
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@strongsz (161)
• China
24 Oct 10
I am studying in a college which is far away from my parents,so I can only visit them during the summer and winter holidaies.I miss them very much.I want to find a job near my hometown,so that I can visit my parents frequently.I love them very much.
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@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 10
Hi friend, Welcome to Mylot.. I can understand how you miss your parents.. you have a good idea that you will find your job near to your home town.. All the best..
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@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 10
Hi friend, its sad that you can visit them only once in year.. I guess they too miss you a lot.. Try to make some time atleast once in 3 months and visit them.. So that they will be happy and you can also make yourself happy.. All the best..
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@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
once or twice maximum in a year. yes.. i work a little far from them and it's going to cost me much if i go home every now and then. but of course i call them. i sometimes send a goodnight text. last time i was home was July of this year, my mother's birthday..
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
25 Oct 10
Hi friend thanks for sharing.. Good that you were with your parents on you Mother's Birthday..
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 10
Hi,
You are so lucky that you are still staying in the same
city with your parents after getting married.
For me, I have been living faraway from my parents for the past 15 years.
Now I am married and I am still staying far away from them.
I will only visit my parents once a year.They will come to visit me
too when they are free as we not living in the same country.
How I wish I can visit my parents once a week like what you are doing.
But for my case, it is impossible and you are very lucky able to
see your parents very often.
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 10
Hi shia.. Thanks for sharing.. I wish you will also get a chance to meet your parents very often.. Happy mylotting..
@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
I seldom visit them since I have started working. But these days, for some reasons, I try visit them every week. As long as I have got nothing to do at work. ^_^
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 10
if now I am still living with parents, now I am a person who is not married, although I later married maybe I could not leave my parents because my parents are old,so I will take care of my parents
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
27 Oct 10
Hi friend, Thanks for sharing.. Good that you will not leave your parents after marraige.. but in India its a Custom that Girls after marraige will go to her husband's house and if she dont have any brothers then she and her husband takes care of her parents when they are old..