what did you do if your love one's left you?

This has happened to me a couple of times in my life. I think i have just been more upset than anything else, i start to look back on the relationship and wonder what i did wrong or when do i think things started to go wrong. Explanations aren't always needed or given, but it is nice to know why they have ended the relationship so that you can look at what they say and hope that similar things don't happen in any future relationships that you may have.

the first thing that comes out to my mind is that why does she do that???What I have done to make her do that???do I deserve this thing she done to me???Thats the first thing you come out with your mind,off-course you will try to contact her and make a way to discuss such things about it.I am not mad about her is that I am confuse why does she do that, maybe if I found out what is the real score that is the time to be angry if the reason is valid enough to be angry with her.

I will feel so sad, mad, hopeless etc. A relationship plays a main role in a woman's life. If he leaves me without explanation, I won't let it go. I need to know the reasons. I love China

I don't know what will I do but I think I'll be really mad if he left me without saying anything at all. I just hope this wont happen to me because I dont know what will I do if it happens.

Initially yes... just a normal reaction you'll get mad first. But sometimes we can't stay mad to that person, because our love for him is stronger. And we will even wait for an explanation... then it's unfortunate for us if the explanation is not worth waiting for.

Everything happens for a reason, valid or not. It happened to me. I cried and cried for nights but it really help a lot to pray. And it's true that time heals all wounds. You'll just wake up each day knowing and feeling that the hurts is lessened until the hurts are all gone. Yeah, you just have to move on. Most important when you are faced to this situation is to accept that what's happening is the reality...you can go on denial stage but move on...pray that you can overcome it as soon as it is possible to forget it. And go on living.

well i would try to analyze what went wrong for sure i could find an explanation on whats happening, ill try to sort things out what had happened before he left me if we got an argument before he left then basically that could be a factor for him to leave. but still i could have peace of mind if i could here it from him what really went wrong. i wont get mad,but kept hanging.

i would try to ask him for an explanation. after all i have the right to know what happened. if he doesn't want to do that, I would simply try to move on..there's nothing you could do about it. if he doesn't give you an explanation means he didn;t care ofr you enough so he doesn't deserve the effort

I have an experience. I first felt in denial because I did not have any clue what happened then there is anger but eventually there is acceptance and I have moved on... Time will always heal all wounds.