what did you do if your love one's left you?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
9 responses
@craigy123456789 (1759)
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25 Oct 10
This has happened to me a couple of times in my life. I think i have just been more upset than anything else, i start to look back on the relationship and wonder what i did wrong or when do i think things started to go wrong. Explanations aren't always needed or given, but it is nice to know why they have ended the relationship so that you can look at what they say and hope that similar things don't happen in any future relationships that you may have.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
You are right Craigy. Good thing they are gone because I know that in the future relationship of yours He gave a best one who can't leave you as long as that people breath. If someone we loved leave us I know there are reasons and we don't know what really is if they are not willing to explain us.
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Godbless
@craigy123456789 (1759)
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25 Oct 10
it is better to explain, that way it keeps us from trying to guess what the problem is, this could cause problems with future relationships. I would always hope for honesty from my partner, if they don't want to be with me i would accept that but i also would like to know what happened for the relationship to fail. Best to get answers than none at all, atleast we can work off the information we were given.
@blackcloud (97)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
the first thing that comes out to my mind is that why does she do that???What I have done to make her do that???do I deserve this thing she done to me???Thats the first thing you come out with your mind,off-course you will try to contact her and make a way to discuss such things about it.I am not mad about her is that I am confuse why does she do that, maybe if I found out what is the real score that is the time to be angry if the reason is valid enough to be angry with her.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
Of course that's the first thing question in our mind blackcloud. But we need to think that our love ones not always love us because sometimes, there are cases that they felt in love with others and they need to choose the two of us. in order us to don't hurt, they left us without explanation. That is always happened. But people, loveones left us, I know there are lots of reasons and they are the one who knew it.
Well,thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
Of course you are right youless. when someone left us we need an explanation so that we are not thinking always what is the reason why he leave us. But when they are not willing to explain us and always hide us we need to let them go and don't hesitate to find them because they are useless and nothing for our love. they are not worth it.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
godbless
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
good for you misheli that your love ones doesn't leave you. I thin you are blessed. It is not good if you can experienced that and maybe you didn't know what to do if it happened to you.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@bharbee1126 (85)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
Initially yes... just a normal reaction you'll get mad first. But sometimes we can't stay mad to that person, because our love for him is stronger. And we will even wait for an explanation... then it's unfortunate for us if the explanation is not worth waiting for.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
Yeah of course. If people get mad, they obviously seeing the facial expression but after a minute they can realize and think a better. It is usual to felt mad because we are human and normal but when were mad, we need to control it because not all people can truly understand our feelings and attitude.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@vangie26 (445)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Everything happens for a reason, valid or not. It happened to me. I cried and cried for nights but it really help a lot to pray. And it's true that time heals all wounds. You'll just wake up each day knowing and feeling that the hurts is lessened until the hurts are all gone. Yeah, you just have to move on. Most important when you are faced to this situation is to accept that what's happening is the reality...you can go on denial stage but move on...pray that you can overcome it as soon as it is possible to forget it. And go on living.
@pretty_lexie (74)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
well i would try to analyze what went wrong for sure i could find an explanation on whats happening, ill try to sort things out what had happened before he left me if we got an argument before he left then basically that could be a factor for him to leave. but still i could have peace of mind if i could here it from him what really went wrong. i wont get mad,but kept hanging.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
24 Oct 10
i would try to ask him for an explanation. after all i have the right to know what happened. if he doesn't want to do that, I would simply try to move on..there's nothing you could do about it. if he doesn't give you an explanation means he didn;t care ofr you enough so he doesn't deserve the effort
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Yes swi8ssheart. Those guy like that is nothing and worthless for our love. If someone leaves us with no reason, I don't ask any explanation because I know that if someone didn't like us, of course they will leave. there are lot of case like that .most men are the one who leave the girl because they find happiness to other girls.
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Godbless
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Yeah wadabski. Time is coming so fast that we cannot realize that our hatred, sadness automatically gone. They heal the wounds we felt. The hatred we felt of course. It is part of our life that our beloved friend were gone and we need to overcome this by finding another friend.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
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