Is there anything that can Guarantee to keep your friends forever
By bharbee1126
@bharbee1126 (85)
Philippines
October 24, 2010 8:47am CST
I would like to know what can guarantee a forever friendship. Sometimes you've already given the best in you to keep your friends. But, do some really meant to leave. Though you choose to fight for them to win them to keep them. Unfortunately, they would give up on you... and you lose them
4 responses
@SoloDee (6)
• Canada
5 Nov 10
A true friend does not make you fight for them, make you try to win them over, or even give up on you. A forever friendship comes but once in a lifetime. There IS such a thing. When you have a forever friendship, you are happy that you even know this person. You have so much in common, you can finish each other's sentences, you can look at each other and not say a word but know what the other one is thinking. IF you ever disagree, you can yell at each other, say mean, nasty, horrible things, but when the conversation is done you look at each other and hug. Because you know that life would be more sad, miserable, and just downright wrong without that person. It's when you know that there is nothing in the world that this person could do that you wouldn't be able to forgive them for.
You should be able to tell them ANYTHING without fear of being judged or laughed at. They are not afraid to tell you anything either. Sometimes you just have to talk to your friend as if they were an extention of yourself and see where that takes you. You have to be as honest and real with them as you would be with yourself!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
24 Oct 10
Firstly I see you are fairly new so a very warm welcome to you on myLot.
There are no absolute guarantees in life my friend. The only thing you can guarantee is your be true to your friendship with people.
@Catana (735)
• United States
24 Oct 10
It's very rare for two people to stay friends forever. People change as they get older, and sometimes they change in different directions from each other. Family and job responsibilities can get in the way, and if one moves too far away, trying to keep up when you don't see each other regularly, makes it even harder. Sometimes, it's just smarter and less painful to admit that things have changed and move on.