My Friend ... what should i do ?

@fey008 (295)
Indonesia
October 24, 2010 10:39am CST
Hi Mylotters... today, i am so tired. but at 4 pm my friend come and asking going to cafe. I don't want going to there. cause i am so tired and wanna take rest for a moment. What should i do ?
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10 responses
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
5 Nov 10
Why don't you make a call to your friend and to tell her/him how you're tired. You'll feel better after that. And your friend maybe go to visit you at home.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
hi fey, there are friends whom no matter how much you say no would still insist. first say no. if they dont buy it, just dont show up. take care and rest. ann
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 10
hai fey... it`s simple...why must make you confuse you can refuse your friends invitations with polite if he is your best friends, he can understands...
• United States
24 Oct 10
Sometimes we do not want to do things with friends as we are so tired and we become debatable as to whether to go and fulfill our friends request for company and or simply stay home and take a nap. You know your limits so I would would begin there.
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
You should rest for a short while then after recovering from being tired then you should go out then with your friend. There, having a coffee break with him or her would not make much of your time and effort and surely you will not get tired. Enjoy!
• Indonesia
24 Oct 10
Hi fey008, I sometimes also experience such thing. If you really don't wanna go, just say it right. Say that you are tired and need some rests. If they still force you, say that it is useless to ask you to come. Give them reason that in the cafe you would do nothing, even couldn't listen to what they speak, since you're so tired. Promise them that whenever you're OK, you'll go with them. Then they will understand your condition.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Tell her that you have to pass at this time. You have a valid reason to decline her request. You can say maybe next time.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 10
Just be frank to your friends and tell them that you are tired and need a good rest. I am sure he understand you and would not force you to go out with him.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
24 Oct 10
Politely tell your friend "Thanks, but NO thanks"!!! Just be honest & tell your friend that you need some time for yourself as you are tired & don't feel like going out. Also wish them a good time while they're out having fun. Then stay home & REST!!!!
@beeh13u (1037)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Then don't come. Tell him you are tired. You shouldn't force yourself to exert strength that you can't have. Sleep and rest is very important. I know your friend will understand.