if you were a teacher and fell for your student and he also what would you do?^^

keeping the feelings apart there is some ethiks in student tracher relationship even if he or she wnats to they should keep the decoram of the profession they r in after the classes r over and he or she is no longer ur student there is nothing the rest of the world could do this is there business but i dont think most teacher would do sucha thing

Oh golly gosh no! That right there is really risky... and kind of creepy. You could get fired, or, I think, arrested if you're found to be having relations with a student. If I did happen to like my student, in the way you explain it, I would really try to find someone else to fall for. If they come up to me and ask me if I have more interest in them than just a normal friendship, I would lie and say "Of course not." But if it gets to the point where I can't sleep at night because I can't stop thinking about them... I would try to find professional help. All in all, I don't want to be arrested or fired. :)

Well first of all I'd like to disclose that I'm myself a student and I think it'd be freaking awesome to date a teacher, specially if she's hot. Secondly, I have crush on two or three teachers in my college and as they are like three or four years elder to me, so i won't mind hooking on with them. Now in case I become a teacher(which is highly unlikely)and start loving a chick in my class, then I'll first of all take time to think that why I'm so attracted to her. If i discover that there is really something special about her and i just can't live without her(I know is sounds gross),then there is no backing down. If your love is true then I don't think that there is any need of fearing people and all. I mean what would you tell yourself after five or ten years?? I let go someone who really loved me just because I didn't had guts enough to admit it in front of all?? Hooking on with your student surely will be gross and absurd, no doubt in that. But letting go someone who really loves you just for the sake of public will be far much gross. So listen to your heart and do what you think is right for you.

yes i would have a relation with her for sure... God listen ur prayes once in a while so never loose a opportunity and ctrl ur dignity and move ahead :P

Well I would like to answer this by telling that when I was in my school days there were two teachers I had crush on one was my HINDI teacher and one was my MATH teacher they both looked extremely hot and really beautiful I used to never attended any class except Hindi and Math I used to concentrate properly but she used to think that I was concentrating in her class but she didn't knew that I was concentrating on her and ya if sometime something happens like that that my teacher fall for me or I fall for my student if the love is really uncontrollable then I would be in a relationship with her.....

well, if we really love each other then we'll just decide that i would finish my studies first before we let the people know about our relationship. because we all know that it is not allowed for a teacher to have relationships with his/her students. just like you would do. and just like what you said, if we really love each other then we can wait for the right time to come.

That sounds like a really tough situation to be in and I don't know how I would handle a situation like that. I think there have been lot of stories in relation to this in the news and some teachers have actually lost their jobs over it! It's nice when two people fall in love with each other but I suppose it's the job of the two parties to decide what they want to do. The way you would handle things sounds logical as well as appropriate. You just cannot tell when love is going to grab a foothold! Well, good luck to both parties, that's what I say! Andrew

Hello sweet, I used to have a crush on this teacher, but I never told her since i need to study first. that's because we were actually all boys in the school. but probably i was right since there aren't much women then. after i graduated from college, that's when they allowed women in that school. am so freaking angry about it. but i did experience co ed in college

This would be a difficult situation to be in. if i were a teacher with feelings for a student, i would probably have to keep it to myself. i can't see how anything good could come from a relationship in that way.

ohh...i kinda had this experience when i was a practical clinical instructor. that time my bf was jealous but i didnt pursue the feeling because the student was still a student for me.

This is a very sensible matter. You will find a lot of people supporting it. Number of people against is as many. It depends on man to man. What seems right to me may likely to to be wrong to you. But love knows no rule when it has to happen it happens. If a teacher or a student like each other,it is very tough to resist the feeling. But both should remember their responsibility first. I know many teachers and students who love each others. Some of them even got married and happily married.

There's nothing wrong with that,, unless you have patience and wait until you finished your study. There are no rules for that as long it is true love, then no one can hinder that feeling. aja!

that would actually depend on a lot of things...is the student really young...are you married at that point in time..no problem really with falling in love with a student but we have to look at a lot of factors...to make sure no would get hurt.

I would also wait till the year eds and be together but thinking about it, it is reallly disgusting. Fall in love with teacher? It is inappropriate!

i saw many related cases here in our place,teacher-student relationship and the end point they get married just to save the teacher's dignity..

If it is so, then what to do. They have to just start a new life together