what are you doing after mad/angry?
By zmluckyseven
@zmluckyseven (541)
Indonesia
October 25, 2010 10:06am CST
hello mylotters have you all ever shy or anything after you get mad/angry? i ever get this kind of experience that after im getting mad with my friend and then i feel shy because in really the fact isn't like that,it's my mind that think about something bad,and after i think about this for an hour ,that i know angry or mad emotion just make us shy and tired because what can you get after you get angry? i think there is has no effect to us ,what do you think about my title?
2 responses
@savypat (20216)
• United States
25 Oct 10
When you get mad your body excretes certina hormones and you need to do something to eliminate these as soon as possible. Strong exercise is good for this. After you have settled down then is the time to consider how you are going to handle the situation the next time you see that person. I always start with I'm sorry I got upset but here is the reason why. And then go on from there.
@zmluckyseven (541)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 10
so you mean that you're try to be relax and enjoy all the problem? i'd prefer this situation than angry,and i think i must be thankful to the people that makes me upset,because if they're not makes me upset who will? and i wont be able to learn how to make all the problem relax and calm down in 10 seconds,sometimes it's hard to make our emotion calm :D
@forester1985 (999)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 10
sometimes I will get shy, disappointed, after angry with someone who actually just caused our ego. If you get angry by right, you will feel fine after got angry, because angry can meaning "love" and "care" with someone who we love, we don't want they do something that is wrong or bad.then, that is my opinion.
@zmluckyseven (541)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 10
oh i see but sometimes ,some people dont like it too,but i agree with your response that angry can be meaning love or care,but from me i dont like when people get angry with me altough it's what he/she show how they care about me,thanks for your response
