She never married and doesn't have children! How can She be a good Governor?
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
October 25, 2010 10:33am CST
Thanks The View!I just heard that one OK governor candidate is using that she is married and has 6 children against her opponent who isn't married nor has children.At first I thought that is unfair. Why should it make a difference until I remembered, there was a time a single man couldn't get elected dog catcher. In real life it doesn't matter and even in some careers, if you are single with no children it is a plus , male Or female. But with politics, You Have to show you have " Family Values" which means you Have to be married and have children. then I thought This is equal now. If a man or a woman Wants to be a politician , They Better get married and have children Or announce they are Gay. Question, Does a candidate's family life influence the way you vote?
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Oct 10
Hi Sarah,
For many countries these voting trends do vary. Like, in India, many people are more inclined to vote to a party and the candidate is not of much Importance. From the points mentioned above, Indian politics has no such reservations on whether the candidate is married or a bachelor (We have had a Prime Minister and the President) who were both UnMarried and personally I feel they were the best we had in recent times.
Now, the other aspect - We never become parents from our birth. This means that we never know what it actually takes to become parents but the day we have a child, we become parents - My point - no need of extra training to become better parents. It is inborn quality and is realized the day we become parents. Same here, in this case. It is just about realization and then getting to work on that realization for the betterment of the society and nation or state.
Regards,
theSids.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Oct 10
I believe to be a good parent all you need is the desire to be a good Parent.Here in the States, politicians say they want to make a difference but they get into office and they Don't. Over here they use Everything to get elected! This was the first time I heard of a woman Candidate using being a parent against another woman to get elected!
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
26 Oct 10
I think it is the job. People are the same and sadly so is the circus called politics!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
29 Oct 10
I never vote for anybody who has children or is in any kind of a relationship or has pets or hobbies. How can they possibly do justice to such a serious job if they spend any of their time on outside interests?
Oops. Forgot to say sarcasm alert.
Seriously, the only reason their family life, or their personal life would affect how I vote is if it contradicted their professed values (ie a guy running on a "family values" platform who is having an affair) or if it were something illegal or seriously immoral.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
30 Oct 10
Uh-oh! then who is there left to vote for? All of them have something in their past that will contradict what they are trying to stand for now! They all lie , They have to so they can get elected!
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
25 Oct 10
You don't have to be married to be a good governor. you don't need children to be one either. you only have to know what people need and how best to get it for them to be a good governor.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Oct 10
I agree but since A candidate is using it , I guess there are others who may think otherwise.
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@AllenWiggs (404)
• United States
25 Oct 10
First I would disagree that it's equal now, since really it's stupid demanding people to be married or have kids to get elected into office. It really doesn't matter about your personal life choices unless they are choices that are illegal as far as I'm concerned. A candidate's family only influences how I vote when said family does irresponsible or stupid things and the candidate goes on about how those ideas or actions shouldn't be done by others but be hypocrites that it's in their family (Palin is guilty of this), or that the candidate is obviously forcing their family out there just for the press.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
26 Oct 10
I said equal , not fair or logical. But then again Logic and politics don't mix for long! Al politicians are hypocrites. They try their best to convince the voters they are telling the truth when all they do is lie!
@niairen01 (1018)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
Hey, I think you're forgetting something. Even if she doesn't have a family of her own, it doesn't mean she doesn't grow in one. Family values isn't learned by having a family on your own, what you believe about family values is learned inside the family of your own. and points of views are also learned here.
With this said, yes, family background does influence me personally. If a person (politician) does comes with a very disturbing family background (like for example, all family members are politicians and got cases of corruptions) then this person (even if he is a good person) the doings of his family would over shadowed everything. People might think that if that person is sitted his family would take advantage of the power. and gosh.. it does happens.. Former Philippine president Gloria Arroyo, I want to believe that she means good deed to his fellow filipino but her family (sons and husband) all sucks!
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
27 Oct 10
I agree. I don't think it makes a difference if a candidate , male or female, is married or not. Or has kids or not. and like you said ,they could have a family member who is corrupt and that could harm their chances.
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
Hi,
Different countries maybe differ on each government.Ia m from philippines and our president is a single man and i dont think that its the issue here.As long as the politician wether a man or a woman does not matter if married or not what is important is that they are doing all their respective duties to serve for their country and fellowman.MARIED OR NOT IS AN ISSUE HERE IN OUR COUNTRY.
@anniepa (27955)
• United States
28 Oct 10
It doesn't matter to me one bit whether or not a candidate is married or has children. That's really pathetic that anyone would judge someone in that way. It would be just as wrong if someone used the fact this other woman has 6 children and therefore wouldn't have the time to serve against her.
Annie
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
25 Oct 10
Not in the least...I look over what they do..stand for....not that any of it makes any difference but if you have one that at least tries to make changes that better then someone who doesn't show up or has a poor record while in congress or in the business world.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
27 Oct 10
The more I think about it, the more I think that it shouldn't make a difference. If there's a difference, I think it should make the candidate without children to be able to focus more on the job at hand. Raising children would one less stress on the mind of that elected official.
It's funny how we take such a thing as 'family values' and use it incorrectly, just because it's been accepted in the field, such as in politics.
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