what would you do if your bf or gf doesnt care enough for you? O_O

yes everything you said is true^^ love is natural and not forced. sometimes we dont want to face that guy we like doesnt care the same for us and we have to get hurt few times to know that. i just dont know if people say i love you why is so hard for some people to care. or show love. if we love we always should want to show that to our lover and not do that just sometimes but always. and you are right about set it free and if it comes back is bcs love you really^^ thanks for your answer^^ i really like it^^

you said the three things i have for him^^ care im always caring and being sweet to him^^ understanding i always understand that he cant find a real job bcs needs for now to help his mum and i understand that he cant come online in afternoon in my country for us to talk bcs his sister uses it ^^ i always understand everything^^ and patience i have so many really^^ he cant find a job, he almost dont have time for me and still im here^^ anyway these days he is trying to make things work by having more time for me^^ but what i want now is that if he cant find a real job that he tries to work here in mylot and helping me earning money here^^ is not much what we can win but if we save it for our trip in few monthes we can see each other^^ but if is me alone wont work :( money i earn here is to pay my internet bill, help my mum and also to save for my trip. so is very complicated if is only me :( i tried to put videos of me singing in youtube but i dont think many people will watch it bcs im not famous things are too complicated really :(

its not like you say. i love him very much. i did everything for him. so now is him that has to love me. is not about me always trying to make things work. he has to fight also and is not only for a few days. he should try to make us meet as soon as possible but i feel that wont happen. i feel like is impossible that we meet sometimes

hello cat don't worry dear..everything will be alright love always finds a way

yes thats true. space is important and sure cant be only one trying to save things. if both love both have to understand each other and fight to be together. im always wanting to be near my bf^^ so i work here to save some money for that also and not just to help my mum but to see him too. but i wish he had the same will to come and meet me. seems that he doesnt care as much as i do you know i know that boys and girls are different but when love really both try to make things work. he tries but then all be the same again

thanks sweetie^^ but sometimes i feel that wont happen :( my bf we know each other since more than a year. he was saying he loved me and would find a job and in april of this year he would work to come and see me even we were not lovers. now that we are lovers since one month and few days he said he would go to school maybe next month and study two monthes and have a certificate to work as a bartender. i trusted him again and now he says that he has to help his mum taking care of his nephews and cooking so he cant find a job. he said that if next year his nephew go to canada he will find a job. so i asked him if he doesnt go will you find a job? and he said he will but im not sure anymore. he always promise things and dont do. he even promised everyday we would talk for two times at least and there is always something that he does that breaks his promise. like past week was caring everyday and yesterday and today he didnt. and today he came online so he could have send me a message. maybe im fighting for nothing

yes fire you are right^^ by the way i like the nickname you chose^^ is cute and romantic^^ yes i dont understand why for some guys is so hard to show they care. if we love someone we should show it everyday^^ even if is only a sweet word but should be shown everyday. and sure you are right. if we are not happy we should find someone that can make us happy^^

yes craigy i think like you ^^ if we love someone really we would try everything to be near him^^ and is true we cant wait that the person changes. and is true that in the beginning of the relationship the person has to care already^^ is not just tell i love you but is also show it and prove it. and sure we should ask straight what they want or not. craigy about the at least 4 lines you have to write some people said isnt true but still i rather write in minimum 4 :) or like i do always 5 ^^ thanks for your advises^^ did you find a girl already?^^ how is your son? and your work?^^

yes i agree with you^^ if the person is always doing the same thing is bcs we are not so important right?^^ yes i talked with him already. but he loves me. so im giving him a second chance. now i just want that he finds a way to save money to help me. i cant save money alone or we wont see each other soon. about move on i dont want to for now^^

thanks so much for your worry^^ yes sure things can work out as long as me and my bf try^^ i love him and i really dont want to lose him^^ i just want that he focus in help me finding money to meet soon^^ i wish there was a program to work in his country or study there^^ i would try to pay that and go and see him^^ but i searched online and in my country couldnt find it :(

thinks will work out you just have to make them work out.

hi ada^^ yes you are right^^ when we go on a relationship is bcs we want love and care from that person^^ but my bf is a bit different^^ he isnt that showy about his feelings for me to other people. but to me he shows that^^ but the problem is that sometimes we dont talk and seems isnt that big deal for him and for me it is. i need him everyday. we are very far and i need to feel his care^^

yes i like your answer^^ thats what im doing^^ he is sweet and caring but i dont think he receives it much from his family. thats why i have so many patience with him^^ but sometimes i really want to let go i just wanted that he cared more for me. but he is trying to make things work now^^ but about work he cant so i told him to try to work in this site^^

yes i see what you mean^^ treat him the way he treats me. i thought about telling him that i wont save anymore any money for us. but if i said that he would be hurt and he is trying now to care more for me^^ he is showing his love more. i just want now that he sees that he has to find a way to help me earn money. he can work here also when he comes online but he doesnt seem excited with this idea. i dont know what to do anymore. i tried many things to earn money online but seems that besides this site is impossible. i even thought about a movies blog but my net is so slow that even uploads takes ages so one movie everyday my blog wouldnt have any success :( i just wish i could have better luck

thanks^^ yes i see his behavior and i understand him very much^^ thats why i didnt leave him yet. bcs i know he is like this bcs didnt receive much care from others. but me also i need care too^^ and i just wish he could show it more. i know that some guys dont show it much but i need that^^ i understand him very well but sometimes i feel he doesnt understand me that well :(

yes you are right that everyone is different and that i should know his way^^ and i know his way and i know that he is trying to make things work now^^ he is caring more for me now^^ thats why i gave him a second chance^^ now i just need that he finds a way to save money for us to meet near soon^^ thats all i need now^^ but sometimes i feel he isnt so excited about find money :(