When kids fight..do you interfere..?

When its my kids I'll stop them. When it is someone else's I will do nothing to stop them. Am I cruel? Am I self centered? I don't care what others people say. I am me. not somebody else.

Children don't always get along with each other. fights will occur. I think children should learn to resolve their issues on their own. I think parents should only step in when there is a bigger problem than children can handle.

fighting is not a good behavior, I will stop the fighting and try ti know what's teh matter with them, and I will blame the child who is wrong, no matter my child or neighbor's child. if my neighbor is at home, I will ask them come over to deal with it together

In this sort of situation I see them as children. I mean I don#t think this my child that is not my child. I forget that at the moment. i see them as children. I go to the place quicly. That i stop the querrel or fight right away; protect the child who is hurt mentaly or physically, and comfort the child. When the hurt child comforted enough, I hug the other child also and start to ask for the reasonfor the fight. I listen to them carefully. some times it is difficult to understand. if so i just i pretend that I understand. i try my level best to solve their problem. Then I pass some joke on them,cheer them up and bring them to normal position. in these sort of situation I never think that i am a mother of one child. But at home, i let my child to sit on my lap, comfort my child more than enough; speak about the problem and give some advices. I never allow my children to say "I hate him/her". If they say so i adviced them like this: We are children of one God. If you hate him or her the God will be worried for it.

Of course I will interfere. Nobody wants to see children fighting. Maybe if their old enough i won't interfere, as for kids I will. I will just go in between them and separate them apart, ask them why they fought and who started it.

No! It's a children fight. They don't know what are they fighting for because they are just kids. It's a simple fight so, parents must not interfere. Children fight are not for longer time. They maybe friends the other they. It's normal to a kids having a fight, like adults. As long as they didn't hurt each other. Parents must not interfere.

I certainly hope when my kids are older, they don't get involved with neighborhood fights. But i can see how it can happen. I would just let them work it out among themselves. That is as long as it doesn't become physical.

firstly,interfering in children's fight is okay as long as you take the situation clearly and just and in a diplomatic way, not the warfreak way. It is very unreasonable for an adult to interfere with children's fight without being just and acting as if they're children too. As adults they must have a straighter mind on the matter. What i mean with interfering is by reprimanding both child involved and being the instrument of settling the argument or the root of the fight of the children and NOT TO JOIN THE FIGHT. happy mylotting =)

If i have a Situation like that i`ll advise my Children to run away from the situation !

I will definitely stop my child if they are quarreling someone. I should teach them to be respectful and friendly. Ages 8 years - 12 years old can already understand on every word you say. They should also learn to listen to you then if they are being too stubborn. Younger than 8 is considerable but still, you should teach your kids to be kind as early as possible. And also try to teach your child to fight for his riht and for his own good too.

be kinda rude if u did that, but if they are doing it to your kids of course you do