When all of a sudden, he/she doesn't want to talk to you anymore...

I met the same type of person before. I knew him for about 3 months and we went steady for 3weeks. All those weeks he was really sweet, loving and caring. In that 3 weeks, i never even ones came to their home and i don't call his home too. I never met his parents and siblings. Then 1 morning, i called his home, just to realize that he is not really interested with me. We had a short conversation, which ended up our relationship. That 3 weeks was boiled down in few minutes! Then 2 or 3 days later, i found out that he is already into another relationship. From there, i realized that he did not changed suddenly, but he already had someone else right before we broke up.

This is just my own opinion and I wan to be straight forward with you. He found somebody else! I hope that I'm wrong but when men tries to be so sweet and makes promises and all, and suddenly just disappear, it means they found somebody else. I might be wrong but i don't want to get your hopes up too. i don't want to say that probably he's just sorting out his feelings and would return coming back to you. If you want to maintain self-respect, try not calling him. If he calls you, give him the dose of his own medicine!

Good day to you Paper_Doll, With reference to your question, as far as I know, there are a lot of things why does a person abruptly change his/her attitude. One of these reasons are, maybe, the environment where the person grew up. That he/she was not trained to handle a more serious relationship. That, when a serious type of relationship arises, the sense of responsibility also occur. And that, there will be more demands. And this is perhaps, what has had been in mind by the guy that you have met. Although, you have reached the higher level of relationship. Still, there is a one spot on his heart and mind that, handling a relationship is not as easy as 1-2-3. And that, though, you and him reached that level, maybe, there are some things which still bothers him. However, dont loose hope. Just pray and give him an enough time to think. For sure, everything will be fine. Dont think that he'd change, perhaps, he just want to think it thoroughly on how to handle your relationship since it was moved on to another level. Just keep it normal. Just keep a healthy communication.

Do not call him. Let him call you. Calling him means you are so obvious that you like him or maybe he just does not like being called first by the girl. Be busy, and do not think about him that much. Soon, he will realize what he lost.Have you noticed that when men know you are always there for them they take you for granted? and when you get busy with your life, they get so concerned that you might have forgotten about them they are always around?

I think his guy is not serious with you. Sorry to say that but i know some doing that. Just making fun with us women and when they felt we are already been caught in their web, suddenly keep their distance without any explanation, insensitive to what we might feel, keep us hanging in the air. I think he doesn't changed since in the very beginning he never meant what he has been saying anyway. It's better that you know it this early rather than later. What he has done is quite painful. You can still find a man better than him. God Bless!!!

Well, I think there comes a day when he need to think something about himself outside your relationship. Actually I experienced that. I have a girlfriend and there are times that I feel I need to do something for myself aside from being with her. For me it is normal that people would like to have a bit of "space". Anyways, you're not yet married to him, are you?

It is possible that he is just having a bad morning. I know that men tend to act different when they don't want anything to do with the woman anymore but he could just be dealing with something. Or it could be possible that he got what he wanted and is ready to move on. Either way, don't let it get you down. Hold your head up and take care of yourself. Don't let a man make you feel bad. If it has ended be lucky it was after only three weeks instead of three years or more.

Hi paper doll, I wouldn't worry too much about it just yet. it's just one day and it could be that he was busy or tired. We all need some space. As to how could things change so quickly, well I'm thinking that you fell in love really fast so it isn't surprising that things change really fast. I hope for your sake that everything is alright and it probably is. I'm just saying that you shouldn't jump to conclusions here and get all worked up until you know more.

Paper_Doll, This really kinda explained everything - the experience of 'thinking' that you are loved with physical affirmation. You thought that your fate would change forever, but the truth is that it still ends up in the same dump. Not trying to cast stones at you but if you always reckon that you are easy and always live in that notion of being easy, you will always encounter man that will take advantage of you, without giving a second thought. It's as simple as that. Your lesson about reality is blatant - until you learn to work through it, you will suffer in areas of love, life and friendship, with greater intensity as you grow older. You are young now and there are many areas of self improvement you must seek. Only then, would you be able to strengthen yourself and win. Let's just hope that your love is not narcissistic and delusional, for many people make decision/s out of delusional circumstances and end up having crisis. I hope that you will recover from this and be careful in the future. Don't take everything at face value or you will just end up in the same painful predicament. Take your time and most of all take care of yourself at all times.

It happened with me also. Don't bother about that person. Go ahead.

Hi, Since you guys just knew each other for only 3 weeks time,it is kinda short time to really go into another stage for real relationship. You can actually start from friendship,then only if you find that he is the right guy for you,then only you consider to get him as your boyfriend provided he has a feeling for you too. Sometimes, for relationship to go on, there must have a kind of chemistry when you guys see on each other.without that chemistry, there is no point to carry on the relationship. Don't be sad and let's find the right time to meet up with him and have a good chat. You may consider to carry on from friendship first,so that you won't get hurt in future. You still need time to really understand and know well on this guy. He can be serious or he can be not serious in you....still a big question mark in Mind and only time can tell you the truth.

dont cry^^ maybe last night when he went home maybe his parents argued with him or something happened. thats why maybe he wasnt in a mood to talk. i know that boys should be more sweet when have probs but sometimes they talk rude not bcs of you but bcs of other prob they are having. dont be sad and wait him to talk to you^^ im sure that he will say sorry for hurt you^^ for sure he had other prob in his head and thats why he acted like that^^ trust me and give him time to relax from that. let him solve his things. i know isnt easy but is better you wait he calls you than to insist. let him say something^^

I hope you will be fine