Left by your greatest love...

If you can control your mind and think that whatever happens is for the "best" and that you are never meant to be with your ex, You will get over him/her in a lightening speed. I have this ability to get over a bad situation so fast that it astonishes me sometimes... Just control your mind and thinks that the best is just round the corner. I am a perfectionist and till now, I haven't found the best yet.. because nobody matches up to my expectations and I don't feel so bad going out of a bad relationship or bad experiences/bad situations because i just feel they are not worth your time... at all.

Currently on this state right now. I dont know how to get rid of the pain as of the moment but at some point in time I thought life must go on and I should take care of myself more so I could be well in the future. Though the hurt is still present but I tend to make myself busy and be productive hoping I could at least forget everything by being so engrosed on something. I know its hard but I know things will be okay if I would learn to accept things that things really are not meant to be. That everything happens for a reason and that sadness dwells in me right now but someday this dark moments will come to its end soon.

Such a terrible thing happened to a person. But what can we do that's what they call life. Anyways I've been into that situation, its been 8 yrs ago and until now I still have not move on. Can you believe that, yes I've been in and out in the relationship but I would always end up thinking that he is still the best. So I also dont have a successful relationship with someone. I can't really tell how long I guess it would be depend on the mentality of a person of how she could move on with another chapter in her life.

It is really hard to be left by someone you love. Two years ago, my ex left me for another woman. I thought I would never get over him. But as time went by I learned to accept the fact that he's never gonna come back to me. Moving on and letting go is a process. It won't be an overnight thing where you'd expect to get over her the next day.