my sister's sooo lazy

oh she's only 13~ no husband, nope. hahaXD i hope she does change when she enters college and lives by herself. i'm just not sure if she's learned enough to be able to live alone. i don't know if she can cook, and i've seen her awful cleaning. *sigh* the mailbox is actually put in a supposedly safe location; the dog is just waaay too close to it. we have this black labrabor (black jack~) and he's HUGE. we recently asked an uncle to get him away from the mailbox. the mailbox is safe now.XD

Oh, she's only thirteen? So you have to wait "a little" until you'll see the changes. I don't know, she's only a child, don't expect her to do too much. I remember when I was her age, my mother didn't ask me to do anything around the house. All I was supposed to do was to learn. And that's what I did. But when I left to college, I was forced to live alone, and I had to do everything in the house: leaning, cooking and so on.

oh i had to do loads of stuff when i was her age. my mom worked so i had to help her with the house chores. i had to learn how to cook, to do the dishes, to wash clothes and iron them, and to clean the house. i don't do all of them all the time, but i had to be prepared in case i had to them. it was like that for years until i went to college. since i'm away now, my sister will have to be my substitute, but she's hardly any help. not that it applies to every child in my country, but we are usually taught to do house chores at a young age. i do agree with it (even though i hated washing the dishes before), especially with the idea that we ought to help our moms. i personally learned a lot. i have classmates who don't know how to cook at all, and we are already in our 20s.0_0

hi~ i'm sorry i totally forgot about replying to your response. i was so busy when it came and the notif got mixed with lots of stuff in my inbox. anyway, she's not fat at all. she's thin really. i can say she's improving. she's still grumpy and all when you tell her to do something, but she does it anyway. and last Christmas i had a serious conversation with her, and she seemed to understand. i do know she hates getting scolded for being lazy too, so i told her what to do. it seems that she's not really rebelliously lazy; she just doesn't know what to do or where to start. so i taught her a cleaning routine; a list of things to do specifying where to start and what to do next. she had a good start last December. she still forgot to do some chores, but at least she has started to work without being told.:)