Not everything that comes into your life is a destiny...
@santosmarichris (1849)
Philippines
October 27, 2010 3:34am CST
More often than not it's a misery...
So, with this in mind be very careful with people you meet, opportunities that's right at your face and situations that are unknown. Don't think that, that person is already the one just because of destiny, don't think that, that opportunity to work abroad/ or have a business is the one you might be fooled, don't think that, that situation is all ment for you. Always be careful, study the person, study the opportunity, assess the situation and don't rush. If your having second thoughts, that only means that it ain't good. Go with your instinct. 
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@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
I really don't think that everything that happened in my life is destined to happened. I had a choice to make it happen or not.
But meeting people, for example ,is yes, a destiny, but marrying that person is another story. it is a choice, a decision to make and derstiny has nothing to do with it.
Yes, you are right, careful assessment of everything that comes our ways will lessen the regret later. It will not totally save us from commiting wrong judgement and decision but somehow, it will lessen the chances of making a wrong move.:)
MY hubby believes that everything is destined to happen. I'd say no because i am the architect of my oen life. :)
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
28 Oct 10
Hi santos mari chris: I think that's a great advice. I try to follow it in my life. It's very important to think carefully to take the wisest decitions and to know what's good for us.
ALVARO
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
27 Oct 10
I would go even further and state, Nothing that comes into your life is Destiny. The reason, We are the creators of our lives.In each and every moment of life we are creating our future. This leaves nothing to chance. There are no accidents, or happenings, no such thing as fore-ordination! We are the creators of our own destiny!
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
27 Oct 10
Sometimes i think that too much emphasis is put on our destiny. Not everything has to lead to it. There is so much more to life than fulfilling destiny. If we are just looking at that, we miss out on so much.2 people like this
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
Somehow you have a point, that rushing doesn't give exactness. So think things twice or more than it seems. I worked in a very promising company for they offered good opportunities, unfortunately those were empty words of foolishness. Hmmm, it took me too long to decide. Yet now I'm free.
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@derek_a (10874)
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27 Oct 10
I believe that we make our own luck and destiny and that very little is down to chance. When bad things happen that we have not really instigated, then I believe that if things won't change when we try to make them change, then we need to use it as a life lesson and certainly not ignore it. What may appear to be bad may in the longer term prove to be good. As a Zen practitioner I aim to see things as just so, neither good nor bad, but just as lessons in life that I need to meditate on. 
_Derek
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@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 10
Thanks santosmarichris
I am about to post a questions like this.
I think its will be ok for a person to think what has happen and take proper action against it and all will be alright for you.
GOD BLESS YOU !
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
Yup. We definitely have to be careful about these scammers. They're all over the place and they've blended in pretty good that you'll need some sort of a third eye to distinguish them from the rest.
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@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
27 Oct 10
You may be right in what you say santos..
Lol but destiny is certainly a factor, i give you an example of a twin, they are both boys, born to the same parent, live in same house, but one becomes a sucessful man in all respects, but other one is a total failure..
All that we need to do is keep our fight on, our efforts on. leave the rest on destiny..
Thanks for sharing.
Professor. . Cheers
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@sweetmary86 (822)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
yeah ur right..thanks for your admonition we should be extra careful in dealing with people and situations. and we should trust our instinct and never rush on things. we should think not once not twice but many times before we act or speak
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@cyrri_ako (461)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
sometimes, what happens to us is our own choice. so we need to be careful when we are making decisions to make sure that we have chosen the correct options. after all, Aerosmith said, life is a journey, not a destination.......
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@huydiet71 (87)
• Thailand
27 Oct 10
I always think my life is a destiny. everything i meet in my life, less or more will affect to me. and I also believe in lucky. i hope and hope and will not stop hoping. I believe in a beautiful future..
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@haroonjaved911 (15)
• Pakistan
28 Oct 10
u should believe on destiny..but u should not lead ur life on the shoulders of destiny! You r the one who make ur own destiny!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Of course,no one is to be blame but yourself alone.
You had your mind to think and yes,your instinct.
So,if you think you're not secured,why trust someone you don't know personally?
Just think about this,if people around us,our relatives can fooled us..what more with people we don't know much?
So,why trust our life for destiny?
Not everything that happens in our life is destiny.
And,i don't rely my life in destiny alone.
Everything happens with a reason.
If you let yourself fooled...because you let someone fooled you,don't blame destiny.
People blame destiny and fate for bad things,but with good things they claimed for the credit and forget destiny and fate (what a thinking)
have a good day always
