when you lose love after getting your lover
By gunjanpri
@gunjanpri (603)
India
October 27, 2010 11:08am CST
It is painful when you lose your love, but how will somebody feel when he or she loses love after getting lover? I have married my lover but lost my love. He does not love me any more. In fact we live like strangers. We live together for the sake of our child only. Do not know what will it lead to.
2 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
27 Oct 10
This has to be extremely difficult for you and I hope you can come to some sort of resolution. It has to be difficult for the children as if mom and dad are not happy they can sense that.
Please keep in mind that ten years will go by whether you want them to or not and you need to determine if after ten more years this will be an okay way to live. I do hope you and your spouse can resolve this as it truly has to be painful. Good luck to you.
@gunjanpri (603)
• India
28 Oct 10
Actually it is not ok dear. I love with a person who loves me no more, it doesnt matter much. But the problem is that I crave for him. I feel frustrated when he does not even ask how am I. I do not ask him why was he late when his office hours ended at 3pm and he enters house at 10 pm. But my heart burns. I burn myself with pain.
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
27 Oct 10
it happens sometimes,,well you guys both know theres something wrong but never tried to talk about it?(ok I get it afraid of having the same discussion with the same result)
I totally understand how you feel that sometimes man were ignoring us..or take us for granted..but maybe sometimes we just have to lower our pride and learn to initiate and the most important thing dont keep everything..let it go... coz anger can change everything...
anyway goodluck... try to make yourself happy
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