My boyfriend has brain cancer :(

Philippines
October 27, 2010 2:57pm CST
My boyfriend and I just met two months ago. For me, he is the best thing that happened to me. I could never ask for more. A month ago, he asked me to get married and I said yes. Two weeks ago, he was diagnosed of brain cancer :( How could something like that happen to someone so precious? Sometimes I ask why him? Why not a bad guy?
3 responses
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
27 Oct 10
Oh turikusi so very sad to hear this and I wish it wasn't so. Sometimes life hits some harder than others and this I read is certainly very difficult to deal with. Please be their with him as he is now going to need more love and comfort. Pray that there is something that can be done and if there really is not much that can be done, please pray that what ever amount of life you both have together you and he can cherish as much as possible. I am so sorry to read this as I too question why bad people do not get affected as much as good people to at times.
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
27 Oct 10
turikusi I will pray for you both as this is so really sad. I hope that you continue to enjoy a wonderful guy and that he gets better as well. Please keep me posted and I wish you well.
turikusi
@turikusi (66)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I know right? If all the bad people will get cancer (but I'm not praying that they would) then I think the world would become a better place?
savypat
@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Oct 10
Whatever he is facing you can help him by standing by him. None of us know how long we have and you have the choice of spending this time being sad or filling it with as much joy as you can find. You didn't say if his was curable or not. And it really doesn't matter, we have NOW so make it full of fun and love.
turikusi
@turikusi (66)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I told him I want to spend time with him but keeps pushing me away. He keeps telling me that he's not suitable for me now coz he's sick. I guess he's just going through some phase now.
savypat
@savypat (20216)
• United States
28 Oct 10
He knows how bad this time is going to be and loves you enough not to want you to go through it also. if you feel you love enough to stick with him tell him you will be going through hell anyway, even if you are away from him and if you could help him in any way it would help you also. Blessings
Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Oct 10
I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend now fiance has brain cancer. My uncle had brain cancer as well. I hope everything is going to be okay, best wishes to you and your fiance!